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752574 tn?1265473608

I need advice

So like it says in my profile we had a miscarriage last August, My boyfriend and I tried for eight months to get pregnant again. Two months along he walked out on me, he rarely calls and when he does he never asks how I am, if I need anything. He usually texts me and asks me out to dinner once ever two to three weeks. Never calls, Said he was going to fix my car and buy me the stroller, and never did. He did show for the ultrasound to which when they said it was a girl he said " I guess that's ok". He is living at his mothers rent free buying himself a new car, laptop and going out to the bars and messing around with girls ten years younger than him. He also pushed me down before he left and said "I don't give a f--- about the  baby" What do I owe this man? Do I try to let him be a part of this? How much more should I really deal with?
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212720 tn?1304375415
My placenta is low lying as well. The majority of them will rise up themselves and cause no problems. I have another scan Oct 1. They will check mine at that time.

He is a fool. ;0
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752574 tn?1265473608
Just found out that the placenta is low, I have to have another ultrasound Oct. 9, must admit I am a little freaked out, and I have tried to call her "Daddy" and he wont even pick up the phone
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212720 tn?1304375415
Personally, I would want him out of my life. If he treats you so poorly already there is no reason to believe that he will treat you or your daughter any better in the future. He is selfish and immature. He is however the father and I would suggest you break off all romantic ties to him and think him only as the father of your daughter and NOT your boyfriend. Express to him that u want him to be a part of the babies life and that he will need to provide financial asistance.

You owe him NOTHING. If he proves to be a deadbeat father then take him to court and get child support payments.
There are many more men out there that would love to be in your life and will treat you and your daughter with the respect, devotion and love that you both deserve! :)
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