I used my phone & took pics to see the condition! Used my sense of touch to tell me where to go!
I once asked my ob-gyn how many women shave, and he said about half. He said it seemed to relate to how thick and dark the hair was, apparently sandy-haired former blondes consistently don't bother. For the record, he sounded bored by whether someone shaved or did not shave, i.e., your ob-gyn is not judging you if you don't. lol
Good luck lol mirrors can help. I tryed once and decided I just don't care. I'm leaving my pride at the door, ill pick it up on the way out.