In wk 12 started bleeding again

[Pam209]

I am really being tested. I Stopped bleeding for about 1 and half wks, so things were looking good, had a scan last Wednesday which was my first routine scan with the Antenatal clinic, and all is good, little ones heart beat was present and arms were moving about as if he/she was dancing. On saturday i started bleeding again, my heart sank when i saw the blood on the tissue. Called the Early Pregnancy Assesment unit this morning and they don't seem concerned, as the bleeding is the same as b4. They have told me if there is any change to get in touch for a further scan. She also advised me to go and see my midwife, who i am seeing on wednesday. The E.P.A.U think i will be one of these women that will bleed every so often during m pregancy. I also think going back to work last week full time was a bad idea as i work in sales with targets and deadline to meet. I have now adopted a very positive attitude towards my bleeding because it has happened so many times, i can't bear to think the worst and as hubby said 'No point thinking the worst until the worst happens'.

If god wants me to have this baby then he/she will arrive 5th June 09. All i can do is hope and pray.

[Pam209]

Hello ladies,
I would like to thank you all for your feed back, its good to know there are people who are going through or have been through the same thing as me, in a strange way its so reassuring although i would not wish this upon anybody. I saw my midwife today and she is not to concerned as my last scan showed growth and a strong heart beat from my little one.
I find having a positive attitude stops me from sitting here and crying all day long, as i have read books that say that my baby at this stage can hear our voices and things going on around me. I don't want my little one to get any negative vibes. Once again 'thank you' for your concern advise and preys. God bless you all.

Pam 209

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[mapes10]

Great attitude.  I bled off and on during my first pregnancy, and my son was born perfectly healthy.  God gave me amazing strength during that time, and my son has been a huge blessing in our lives ever since.  After a mc this summer, I am pregnant again and also worried.  Take care of yourself, and try not to work too hard.  Faith will carry you through this time.

[bryanarae]

When I was pregnant with my son, I got bleeding about every 2 weeks or once a month until I was 5 months pregnant. Every time bleeding would happen my doctor would send me for a scan and every single time we saw the heart beat, and the baby was getting bigger and bigger every time. Some people just bleed. I know it is hard and that it is extremely stressful, but try to remain positive. I know, easier said than done, but if your child is meant to be, then you will know come June. Best of luck.

[sakers1985]

Hey Pam,
   I just wanted you to know I was bleeding before and called the doctor and everything and they didnt seem concerned either... here I am scared to death that I am losing my little one and they act like it's nothing. When I went to have my pelvic exam they told me that I have a very sensitive cervix and it will bleed to the slightest touch or pressure. Kinda reassured me but I know how you feel.. its like something punches you in the stomach every time you see it on the tissue.  I agree with you completly when you say "If God wants you to have this baby then he/she will arrive..." Just mine will arrive June 25th. May you and your little one be blessed.

[nsrchofbaby]

I'm so sorry to hear that you're going through this all over again but I'm glad that you're in such good spirits. I'm glad that you've decided to leave it in God's hands. I will suggest that you continue to think positive and try to get as much rest as you can. Your body is working really hard right now so try to minimize physical activity and stress as much as possible. This journey may be difficult and you may be tested all along the way, but you will see that your faith in God will get you through anything. I will continue to pray for you and your husband and that little miracle that you've created. Take it easy and one day at a time. Everything will be okay, you'll see. Well, take care and God Bless. Keep in touch. :)