Focus on what's good for you and your baby. My husband and I have not been seeing eye to eye. He picks on me for having too many pillows to sleep on at night. Guess he is clueless about pregnancy. He threatens divorce everyday. I just focus on what my baby needs and leave to rest to the universe. I pray everything will be fine. Keep your head up and focus on your little one.
I also am going through a divorce, not with my babys father though....long story but basically my husband did somethin that couldn't forgive him for, so we have been in the divorce process for a year and a half and it has been stressful...luckily I have a really great family who has been there for me through all of this....when I found out I was pregnant let's just say I was shocked and it took me about a month to get used to the idea....espically given my situation...the most important thing to remember is that right now you and the baby are the most important things so above all else you have to take care of you! If you want to talk feel free to private message me anytime.
Better being stressed by a divorce than being stressed by a crappy marriage. Divorce has an end point. Staying in a crappy marriage goes on and on.
Thanks ladies this has helped me out in so many ways. Tired of crying over something i just cant fix.