MARRIAGE ????

[claudia0802]

Is it wrong of me to want to get married before my baby gets here ???? We been together for 1 year and 4 months

[elle30]

It's ideal but i dont think you should get married just because youre pregnant or try to basically in a sense tell a man he needs to propose. Neither are good reasons to get married and usually dont end well. I wouldnt want to be married under those circumstances. Just be patient and the time will come. Ya never know,he may have already been planning to ask.

[AmandaPanda85]

My boyfriend had mentioned it when we found out we were pregnant. I said if you wanted to marry me it would have came up before I got pregnant not because I'm pregnant now. So I said after the baby. I just don't feel like stressing over planning a wedding whike pregnant and wondering what could I find to fit in. I also wanted my wedding to be out of state so it's just better that I'm not pregnant trying to do all that.

[Josephine95]

My husband and I were pregnant before we got married. I would have married him regardless. But for me, I just really wanted the same last names on the birth certificate. It really bothered me, actually. So we did. [: Try telling your boyfriend about your concerns of not being married. It might help him see your point of view.

[UniquelyMoi247]

No its not wrong, you should do what makes you happy! I went on holiday at 19wks, holiday was booked 6months before we found out we were expecting. I was going through the same motions, I wanted us all to have the same name and like a previous poster said I wanted him to be my legal next of kin if anything should happen. A about a month before we were due to fly, we discussed it, made enquiries and within a few days we'd booked our wedding for day 7 of our 14day holiday! Best thing I ever did. No stress, no big fuss with guestlists etc, it was amazing! We'd been together 10yrs and 10days to the day we married :)

[2shaky4u]

Same here. We're already engaged and have plans to get married next year but I want to get married before the baby arrives. I'm only 5 weeks. Not only do I want us to have the same name from the beginning but if anything was to happen to me I would want him to legally be able to make life decisions for our child.(I have a very bossy family). But even then I'm still confused. Do I want to get married with a bump in a rushed wedding or do I want to try to squeeze my fat ***, ******* leaking self down an isle 3 months after I give birth?
I really just want to run away to Jamaica and get married in April but I might not be able to fly by then... ugh.

[kalinda88]

Not at all...I am currently 26 weeks pregnant and my partner and I have been together for 6 years, he says its going to happen one day lol I mainly would just like to have the same last name as our son