Thanks to all you ladies even the ones with rude comments all I was really asking for was an opinion on how the name sounded. Yes he is a dead beat I spoke to him today and made him realize many things. I know what I will do with my kid thanks for supporting me to the people who actually helped me
you can name YOUR BABY anything you want.do not feel obliged to name it after a piece of **** sperm donor..just saying.most of all its your baby not his.
I've worked in an elementary school and met at least one mom who really didn't like the situation that her ex's last name was on her kid's paperwork because the guy is a total deadbeat and not present since the child was born, but couldn't take it off because it cost money to do an official name change and the school is required to use the kid's legal name. Save yourself the trouble, don't give the baby this guy's last name if thinking of him is, for you, remembering his verbal abuse and his physical abuse. It will irritate you every time you have to use the child's legal name. Also, if your child has your last name, people know immediately that your child is your child, and if the child does not have your last name, they won't know until you explain it. Don't be in the position of being irritated by the continued presence of a name of someone who was awful to you.
If you are thinking of the last name for child-support reasons, child support is not dependent on the child having the father's last name, just on proof that the child is from that dad. DNA tests are usually asked for when the couple is not married, what the baby is named is not considered proof.
Dont give that baby his name , he honestly doesnt even deserve to have a baby if he doesnt have his priorities straight , but if i have a boy i plan on naming him josiyah as well but adding the " y " in there but the original way is nice too " josiah "
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I read my comment and thought "juan" how is juan... haha
Oh my goodness. People on here are crazy. I apologize if I offended you teenmommy_2015. When I said you do what you must I meant I don't know the whole situation. In the post it never said he hit you or he doesn't take care of his son. People need to CHILL out. Getting hype for no reason just personal opinions. I hope and wish you the best juan remember it's all about you and your son and this website is not going to be there for you like a support group will. Look into some community support groups! It will make you feel better!