I would not suggest the same middle name if your husband is already dubious about them even having middle names. A pal of mine was given only two names by her mother because "When you get married, your last name will become your middle name." You guessed it, she was a professional (a doctor) well before she got married, and very well known, so she didn't change her name. Meaning, she still has just two names. There goes *that* rationale. lol
Look into the family trees for nice middle names. And since you're already being matchy-matchy with the A first initials, consider not being matchy-matchy at all with the middle names.
That's so funny! If my babes a girl her name will be Aubrey. I was gonna do Aubrey Marie. Maybe you should give them the same middle name since there twins. Just a thought :)
Aubrey Elana? Anahi Michelle? I read another post that said to yell the name a few times because you will do that a lot as they get older. But yell it to make sure it rolls well, you don't get tongue tied.