What do I do

[mrsYoungs]

Me and my husband are currently staying with my mom and grandma and my grandma hates my husband cause he doesn't deal with the stuff she says and how she acts sometimes and its starting to stress me out extremely  where I'm about to have a mental break down. me and my husband don't gave anywhere to go right now until an apartment  we are looking at or a house we are looking at come through what do I do to keep cqlm or tell them both to chill. I understand its my grandmas house and all but she has been treating my husband badly since we have first gotten here. What do I do I feel hopeless

[mrsYoungs]

My grandma  says stuff just to tick him off I'm high risk so I cant work he understands its her house and really does everything  to jeep his mouth shut except when she starts putting me down and putting him down

[AnnieBrooke]

Honey, you've got to get to your own place, be aggressive and find something.  Work extra hours or a second job, both of you, until you do.  Don't just wring your hands.  You'll feel better that you're working on this, and he will be less likely to rise to the bait, and if you're both out at work most of the time there is less time to fight.  And grandma might lay off if she sees you both working hard to get out of there.

[ashley3232]

He needs to be the bigger person and suck it up! Its her house... she is being really nice by letting you two stay there.