That's my cousins name. I think it's cute. My cousin is handsome, plays every sport, he's funny, he's smart, doesn't get made fun of. He's an awesome boy. Lol. Im just saying.
I used to know someone who owned a stud dog, and he named him Red Rider, because of using him for stud services. It's kind of a low-class joke, I guess. There was also a Bond girl named Honey Ryder, I think. But probably your child will not get masses and masses of teasing, even if someone thinks of the double meaning once in a while. It's not like you're proposing to name him Long D ong Stud Hitler Johnson or anything.
i like it :) if you and your husband like it everyones else's opinions shouldn't matter, and like you said you cant control them anyway.
I love it. Ryder was a top choice for me in boy names. If i had a boy, I'd be using that for his middle name. I think it's Edgy and adorable. F everyone that doesn't like it.