need to vent

[Aracely1224]

Uhh ever since I got pregnant my bf insisted on me not working I listen to him I stooed working thrn he cut me off by taking my iphone away at first I was kk with it watevers fine im not working im not really helping you anynore then he totally cut me off stope buying ne stuff then it really bugged me because he never cut off my step son he gives child support for him and bought him 360 dillar shoes I got mad and then my bf started sayung I needed to go back to work because I was heloing him with anything and it wasnt enouph. With him working by himself what got me mad is that he cut me iff and he couldnt cut him off. It got me really mad because now if I ask him for stuff hes mean abouy it like he doesnt want to even give me I did go back to work for 4 months and now im almost due so im on matternity leave already and their making me a baby shower and he dont even want to help out not even because im his gf hes all like I bought everything when he offered to buy the cake and bought the stroller my mom primised to buy me and now hes rybbing it in my face and now I want to return the stroller and give him the money back so he can stop saying he bought me a lot it gets me sad that hes acting like that with me and his unborn child wow it even made me cry becsuse my mom paid for everything we havi it all cover and hes saying stuff like ika end paying everything when I asked him if he could pls do me a vaby shiwer he said no and then my mom offer and he said im not he big ping with nothing and he offered to buy the cake and beer for him and his fruends and meat and chiken he wanted now hes paying fir everything I just feel like im a burdon to him like its too much to even have ti support me financially sometumes I feel like he regrets living and veing with me hmm sorry I now its long but I needed to let it out really badly I know its not pregnancy related but I just needed it out...

[Aracely1224]

Idk if any of you have step kids but im not exagerating when I say my steo son onky makes me and my bf figgt because he always wants everything his way I know I shouldnt complain but hes old enouog to not act like that he does it on purpose 2 occasions in front of peoole he will lie to his dad say sonething about me abd then watch me and his dad argue and then keave lauphing and people will say that not nice of hum to make you both fight and leace lauohing hes planned it along ....I just try to brush it off but he should just accept his dad having a family hes oart if the fanily too but ever since I got oregnant hes veen acting like that because me and his dad been together 6 years and hes never acted like that just recently...so idk what could it be.  

[Aracely1224]

@ anniebrooke he is older than me by 10 years we live with my parents. My parents help us out a lot since he has to oay two chikd supports and a daughter in mexico I never ask him for anything expensive yea I fo feel like returning the stroller he ask me what we needed I told him we nedleded to order the cake but to not worry about it he insisted on buying it I let him and now hes saying hes buying everything and the stroller he told me he wanted to buy it I mean its his baby he heloed me make him and since I got pregnant hes only bought him some shoes and clothes he bought them with money I received form being on disabiluty but its his baby so hes suoose to buy him but ill rather him not buy anything if wuth me and the baby hes gonna act like were such a burden thats why I wanted a baby showerr so he wont have to buy the baby nothing I know how he is what hurts ne is that he complains abiut a stupid striller he bought the baby when he buys his 13 year okd son whatever he wants he should just treat all his kids equally inckuding mines .....

[Aracely1224]

I dont ask him for nothing and I get mad because he gets everything anf chikd support and he cut me off and my step daughter from mexico shes the baby shes 9  and whenever she cakls and ask him for stuff or send money hes mean to her I dont mind if he cut me off im just his gf and he took my phone he gave me 2 years ago fot my birthday im not those kind of girls that want expensive stuff or ve all acting juvenile thst I want everything he very well knows I dont like asking for nothing yea I may be 21 but my brought me uo right that even if im in a relatuonshio I ask for pernission to grab money which I never do ...you must think im selfish I never told him to cut him off but to just try not to buy him a lot of expensive stuff if hes gonna complain that hes all stressed out. ....he never really gives me money I always ask my parents to buy me stuff anything I crave so he wont say he buys me everything and he givrs me a lot. I know you must think he does I mean he didnt even want to do me a vaby shower he said no so many times I stop asking and hoping he will change his mind . Byt wayevers I help him out when I was worjing

[noxliesxjustxlove]

He should never EVER be asked to cut off his other child. That's very juvenile of you to expect. Honestly, I also feel like unless the stuff you're asking him to buy you is essential then as long as he is paying bills and you have food in your home he shouldnt be just handing you money.

[AnnieBrooke]

Sweetheart, you sound pretty young and like he is playing mind games with you.  Do you have somewhere to go if in the end it just doesn't work out with him?  I'm awfully glad you did go back to work, it will give you the backstop if you ever have the argument with him about yourself being a burden.  You're not a burden if you can get a job.  Take back the stoller and give him the money if you think it will stop him from acting like he is paying for "everything," along with a list of everything you have received and who actually bought it.  If he's not going to grow up at least he will be forced to see that he is lying to himself.  Don't fuss about him taking care of another child, just tell him that you expect him to take care of this child of yours as well as he does the other boy.

[AuziNikol]

He sounds like a Jerk honestly.