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14 and pregnant

Im 14 and pregnant and im 19 weeks so far and tha baby daddy is 19 my parents now and are very upset wat should I do?
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Yes im still going going to school im a sophomore my parents say im gona drop out but im gona prove them wrong dat im not going to drop out im finish high school n go to college
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You're very young to be pregnant so your parents are most likely upset about that fact.
Are they yelling at you because of the pregnancy, or, are they trying to get you to help out around the house and do chores?
You didn't say if you were still in school or not. I really hope you are because you're education is so important.If you are in school it would be a good idea to talk to the counselor. The school counselor might be able to help you get in to parenting classes and help find resources for you and the baby.
Your home life already sounds stressful and having a baby at such a young age is going to be even more stressful. Try to get all the help you can to keep your stress level down and to give yourself and your baby a good life.  
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Thanks. My parents talk to me but only to get me in trouble they yell at me n make me do stuff I don't suppose to be doing they alway curse at me ders never a day dat goes by without them yelling at me
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Your parents do have rights over you since you're under age. Your boyfriend could get into trouble because he is over age.
I hope your boyfriend does the right thing by taking care of you and the baby. It's his responsibility to do so and not your parents.
Stay in school. Your education is so very important. Babies are very costly so you will need a good job when you're old enough to take care of yourself and your child.
Take parenting classes if you can. They will teach you how to take care of your baby.
Be prepared as possible. Babies require all of your time and it can be very over whelming, especially with you being so young.
You can't blame your parents for being upset. You are so very young and this is the biggest responsibility you will ever have. Your parents have been through this so they know what it's like to have children and how hard it is.
Have you thought about adoption? It is an option if you feel that you're too young or may be doing this on your own.
We're always here to help any way we can.
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Have The Same Thing Here But Im 16 &&The Baby Daddy 21 But My Parents Don't Know . How Did You Tell Your Parents ? Im To Scared To Look At My Mothers Face &&Tell Her . Im 9 Weeks
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Agree with the previous poster.  Be good to your parents, even if they are angry (rightfully so) they will not stop loving you and will want what's best for you. The will be your biggest supporters through this.
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Do exactly what your parents say lol it's happened now so they can't stay angry forever and your boyfriend needs to step up and look after you both but most importantly you need to be around your parents because they may be angry now but there the ones who will support you in the end, find a way to finish school and get a good job, your going to need it with a child to feed, good luck to you x
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