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trying to have a baby

hey im 18 and ive been trying to have a baby for about a year now
and i havent got any good news. ive been folloming my cycle and
my fertile days. its starting to get very upseting. is there any one who
had the same problem then after a while finally concived. if so can you tell
me what you did and how long it took. thank you.
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OMG you guys let her be. If she wants to get pregnant let her, it's her life, she wont be the first or last. I'm just asking you to be 100% sure :) ..anyhow, regarding your question there ovulation sticks, calendars that can help. Avoid smoking from both parties. Also do research, there are certain foods that might help. Just keep trying, it requires patience remember that every woman is different. If nothing works I would suggest to go get tested. Good luck :) hope I helped
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I agree with everyone else, it's just not meant to be right now.  I too wanted to get preggo when I was younger, but it never happened until I was 23 which happened to be a time where we were more stable.  Your body knows what it can handle and ATM it's telling you with the stresses of school etc a baby isn't possible.  On the other hand a doctor won't do fertility tests until you have been trying unsuccessfully for 2 years.
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ok i think its really funny how noone truly and your question they just all kinda lectured you lmao but i guess they are older and know what they are talking about. as a baby does change a lot of things but waterer in any case you feel that you are ready then go ahead. and keep trying. a lot of women do not get there first positive result until sometimes 8yrs after trying and then you have the women who are lucky and get it on their first try. so i would say just have fun and enjoy having sex with your fiance try not to think to much about it and if gods ready to bless you then he will.
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Ok I think you should wait try getting married first and and finishing your education start saving and mature some more and maybe u can consider kids in the future you still have time your young. Make an adult decision be wise not another statistic.
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Yeah, I'd never seen a really bad parent up until that point and it was really shocking.  If I had used that language my mom would have kicked my but into next week.  I still haven't gotten over that the child was 5.  What sort of life did this kid have to have all this hate and anger at "5"!
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she laughed??? are you serious? i would have been putting bars of soap in my kids mouths if i knew they were using that sort of language!!
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