12 weeks no heartbeat

[MrsBurrus]

Hello everyone I went to the doctor for another viginal u/s and they sd that they still can not detect a heart beat sd that I've had a miscarriage. They say that I'm it measured 7 weeks but I'm 12weeks. That would make about a month with no fetal heart beat and my body has not miscarried it self yet. I still use the restroom alot and I have my craving and I've gain weight since my last visit. They say  that I can have the d&c r I can get the pill that will make me past the baby. And the crazy thing is I think I've felt the baby.  Need advise should I get another opinion or done one or the other to past the baby.Thanks

[AmyG89]

Ugh this is exactly what I've gone through this year. In March I had a missed miscarriage. I was supposed to be 13 weeks but baby only measured 9 weeks with no heartbeat. I had a D&C the next day. I also just lost my dad the day after Thanksgiving = (
I can't wait for 2011- I hope we both have a much happier year!
Good Luck and I'm sorry you are going through this.

[MrsBurrus]

Thank u this is the first this has ever happen I have 2 little girls 9 and and my lil one will turn 5 on the 21st of this month so having to go through this it tough and seeing I lost my father this year to what else next.

[superchoc]

gut instinct says get a second opinion but if sac is measuring 7 weeks it doesnt sound promising. i wish you the best x

[MrsBurrus]

Thank u I did c it and from what they showed me it was small I so confused and scared a at the same time

[cassandra19]

oh honey, i am sorry you are going through this i bet you are just freaking out, i would get another opinion did you get to see anything on the u/s?