eww find another ob if you can, thats going to be very uncomfortable for you if you cant, anytime I had an exam i've just had to whip off my undies and put a cover over myself before they do it, if you cant get another one, always take someone in with you or request that his nurse be present. You shouldnt need another internal for ages, so if he wants to do another one next visit, he is def sus!! with your daughter, she isnt too young to start to explain that you have a bub in your tummy and she might hurt it if she jumps there, just keep on guard incase she launches towards you unexpectedly