It really doesnt matter on gender when you start showing its mostly your body type. And when you feel the baby always ranges. A lot of ftm dont until 20+ weeks but you can earlier. I started feeling baby at 15 weeks this time around but didnt until after 20 weeks with my first baby
Thx everybody! Just wish I could have a better guess at the gender
Like other people say, it depends on you and depends on your baby.. I'm 5'3" and weighed 156 prepregnancy and now I'm like 163 and I have a little bump, if you knew me, you could tell that I'm pregnant, not sure if you don't know me, plus it depends on my clothes. :-P
I'm also a ftm. I don't feel flutters yet, but I kinda feel a knock every once and a while, I'll be 15 weeks on Wednesday. :) Good luck!
Showing has nothing to do with being a boy or girl. Like ssimms said it depends on your body type, pre-pregnancy weight, eating habits, etc. You may start to feel baby anywhere from 15-21 weeks.
Both depends on your body it's different with everybody.