am i pregnant

[madhatter81]

ok im very worried here and dont know what is wrong, first i have to say two weeks ago i started cramping, lower back pains, swollen legs and feet, naucea, very thirsty, very tired, i had this for a week till i said i need to go to er because i had chest pains added onto this...i went to er, they said my urine was good they checked it for bladder problems, vaginal infections, kiddnies, and pregnancy. tests cam eback normal, neg preg test. i was five days late and got my cycle, but my cycle was weird and wasnt normal, it was pinkish red and usally i have heavy flow on first day, but i was spotting, this was on a friday, then saturday i was heavy, but then it went to meduim then spotting, sunday i was meduim then heavy, then back to spotting, then it left i had nothing sunday all night, then monday i had pinkish reddish spotting, tuesday i had spotting but it was brown, then later turesday i had nothing and it left...i havent been bleeding ever since last tuesday. but i have had lower back pains, naucea, mild cramping, hot flashes, cravings, and i have felt pressure on my lower abdomin, felt fluttering couple of times, i have taken two home preg tests they were neg and i took a urine and blood test and theycame out negetive...lately all i have had is lowewr back pain..its bearable, cramping...very mild...hotflashes on and off....and lower presure on abdomin. ive had this for a week now on and off with naucea and slite headaches...what is wrong with me? and i know this is pregnancy i know my body, but why isnt it showing on tests, oh i also have been having pains in my groin area but not bad pains, and it feels like my vaginal region is stretching.

[madhatter81]

also i forgot to mention this but my stomach has been hard too, its been hard since friday, its not going down...im not consipated to the point of that either. I will see if they can test for that. thank you

[Clysta]

A beta test is where they check the actual hCG levels in your body. Anything under 5 would be considered negative, and most labs will say that anything higher and rising is positive, though some will still consider anything under 10 or 25 negative.

[madhatter81]

my periods are never off....they are always 28-30 days never later, the flutterings i feel can be gas but i dont feel gas pains or anything to that nature. It was a pregnancy test the hospital did because my doctor ordered it to be done, its where they see when the blood seperates from the cells, somethng to that effect, the nurse explained it to me. What is a beta test? i trulley believe not because i want to beileve but because its my gut feeling im pregant, intuition, and i feel my harmones are out of wack.

[Clysta]

How many months have you been having off periods? If this is the first, you wouldn't be far enough to feel flutterings from the baby. Also, what kind of blood test was done. Have a beta test done and ask them to check your hCG levels. While it is your body, those symptoms don't only mean pregnancy, and it could be something else.