Mixed feelings

[LooLooBug]

So I'm eight weeks and at times I'm very excited to be pregnant and other times I feel like I'm not ready and I have no clue what to do when the baby does come. The pregnancy was planned and talked about with my husband. Is this normal to have these feelings?

[LooLooBug]

Yeah they seem so fragile to change their clothes!! Or their head will flop off if you don't hold them ever so carefully!

I hope it will be second nature, I've heard once you become a mother it wont be so strange or like a mystery.

[Clysta]

I think it's something all first time mothers worry about. My sister and I were pregnant at the same time, but she was 1 month ahead of me. My niece was 5 weeks premature and when I was visiting my sister let me hold her and I FREAKED. I didn't know how to take her cloths off properly (she had vomited on her clothing and she asked me to change her) I didn't know how to hold her properly, and I didn't know what to do when she started to cry. After my daughter was born it was like second nature - it doesn't seem possible, but you'll know what to do when it comes time.

[coffeebuzzedliz]

It is common to feel worried and worry that you wont be a good mom, we all have those moments. There are times now when I worry that I am not doing enough and my baby is now 2!

[LooLooBug]

Yeah, my cousin brought over her one month baby and let me hold her. She was only barely seven pounds so it felt like I was going to break her or something. I'm just afraid I'll totally screw everything up!

[proudmommyandwife]

Yes it is a very exhilirating experience and it can be a scary thing too, you'll be fine though :-)