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i just feel so bad

It just makes me so sad to hear that two people have lost there babies in the last few weeks. I wish there was something that I could say or do for them. I can't image the pain they are in.
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3224409 tn?1356206827
I know its very sad.. My SIL lost her first baby boy at 18wks after her water broke in 2010... She kind of took it for granted coz she ws running around like head less chicken n she acted as if she ws not evn pregnant.. Walking up n down the stairs n holding heavy bags etc we were so worried for her. She evn took 8hrs flight to come to uk which weakened her cervix caused membrane rupture... No matter how much we stopped her she wouldnt listen.. Now its been 2 yrs she hasnt been able to conceive n she knows now that she has to be careful whn she is pregnant....
Last yr it ws sad in june my friend had miscarriage at 7wks n thn i had miscarriage in december at 11wks.. It ws tough on both of us... Coz i fell pregnant 6 months later n she couldnt get pregnant.. She was so upset tht on her birthday she ws crying for her baby.... I just couldnt tell her abt my pregnancy.... I m 26wks n she still doesnt know i m pregnant... I hvnt met her or spoken to her as i dont know wht to say... Coz she always said i want a baby really bad.. Me n dh waited 5yrs to get this lil life... I cn nt imagine loosing him..
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4251679 tn?1370305531
It makes me really sad to, all I can think to say is I'm sorry but I know it doesn't help :( one of the worst feelings I could imagine
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4309243 tn?1353919791
Me and my best friend got preagnant about the same time and she lost her baby couple of weeks ago...... I don't feel like i can talk to her anymore about my preagnancy.... I had 3 miscarriages and know how it is......
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i was just talking about this to my hubby last night. i was literally in tears reading mommytwobe's story all day yesterday. i prayed for her and bubbzykins (sp) last night. mommytwobe was as far along as i am now and i could only imagine. like literally...idk. i'd just want to die. i feel bad posting anything to them because i know nothing i say can help the pain they feel /: hubby didn't really get why i was so upset about it.....i'm glad you posted this. my heart breaks for them.
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4235497 tn?1356982472
It can happen to anyone at any time. Some have an idea that it might happen but others don't. I can't imagine just loosing my baby out of the blue. I at least have had time to prepare for the loss of my child when it happens.
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how far along were u when u got kicked in the stomach?
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How far along were u?
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OMG that's crazy how far a long were u
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I no me too i have two friends in college who both recently had a miscarriage within wks of each other
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I have been in their shoes before. I was kicked in the stomach by a child with a cast on and sent me straight into labor. I delivered a boy in the ultrasound room. It is the worst feeling ever. My husband was ready to punch the doctor for ignoring me and letting me go into full blown labor before having me come in. I now have a beautiful daughter that is almost 2 and we are expecting our son in March.
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Yea it gave me a reminder not to take things for granted
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I no its horible n its scary wen u realise ow often it can happen :-(
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