my sister bled the whole preg with both her kids, they were fine. dont give up yet. lots of prayers for you and your lil bean!!
I'm not really having cramps but the bottom of my back aches (has been like this for at least a week) and i have a fluttery feeling in my tummy but not like cramps. The blood is also darker when i pass urine and thats mainly when i'm bleeding now. Doesn't miscarriage get darker as it goes on and i also haven't had any clots?
I AM GOING THROUGH A MISCARRIAGE RIGHT NOW. I HAVE SPOTTING AND NO CRAMPS. SO IT IS POSSIBLE TO HAVE A MISCARRIAGE WITHOUT THE BAD CRAMPING. MY FIRST MISCARRIAGE I HAD CRAMPING WITH THE BLEEDING SO I KNEW WHAT IT WAS. THIS TIME I THOUGHT I WAS OKAY SINCE I DIDNT HAVE CRAMPS BUT I FOUND OUT LOTS OF WOMEN HAVE MISCARRIAGES WITHOUT CRAMPING. ITS VERY SCARY. IN MY OPINION ANY BLEEDING IN PREGNANCY ISNT GOOD, BUT ON THE OTHER HAND A SMALL PERCENTAGE OF WOMEN HAVE SOME BLEEDING AND THERE FINE. BUT THATS NOT HOW IT NORMALLY IS. GOOD LUCK. I HOPE IT WORKS OUT FOR YOU.
If you aren't having any pain I wouldn't be too worried. I had a miscarriage where I bled and had the worst cramps. Then when I got pregnant again at about 5 1/2 weeks I started bleeding bright red worse than a period. I went to the ER where they told me that it was a miscarriage since on the ultrasound they could see the baby but no heartbeat. Turns out they were wrong it was just too early to see the heartbeat. I bled like that for five weeks and now she is 8 weeks old. The difference between the miscarriage and the bleeding was that I had no cramps. I would contact your doctor and not the ER that way you can get multiple scans to see if you have something called a subchorionic hematoma.
thanks guys ur great. All the hospitals in the area all have the same clinic times though and its all to do with staffing i was told earlier by the nurse i saw that why she advised i just come home and rest. Its heartbreaking to think i am having a miscarriage and i hope i'm not but will have to wait and see now! Again thanks for all ur support
Sweetie you need to go to another ER. It's not always a good sign when you start bleeding, but you do need to find out what's going on that's for sure. Good luck and I'll say a little prayer for you! Let us know how everything turns out hun.