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I went to the ER b/c of cramps mind you I took a pregnacy test and it said yes. They told me my HCG level was only 25 they told me to come back in 48 hrs and it went up to 68 but they see nothing on the vaginal ultrasound . My last period was July 5 th. I dont know why they wouldnt see anything . They have me worried that I may be having or will have a misscarriage
I talked to my Dr yesterday afternoon. They are gonna give me till the end of Nov to get preggo and if not he said come in and see him . Has anyone ever had a d&c and than had a heathly baby afterwards? I am so scared !
Clomid only helps you ovulate and every woman's body is different and some get preggo right after a miscarriage. I would definitely explore your options and find out what your doctor can do for you! Good luck and don't give up!
I went to the dr today I told him I am not sure about getting my tubes tied. Tomorrow makes 1 month since my d&c and I still havent had a period. He told me that I am fine to start agian. Should I ask him for clomid ? To help us out?
We are getting my tubes tied next month. The Dr said I have a 85% chance of having healthy baby. I told him I cant go threw this agian unless he can tell me 100% than I cant handle it !
Thank you for your support. This is so hard its like I see no light . Not only am I sore but when I try not think about it I have the soreness from the D&C to remind me . I called the hospital I want a copy of my report when they did the D&C my family has told me I shouldnt read it that all it would do is upset me greatly. Part of me wants to know . My hubby and I really want to try agian . We are just so scared to . Theres always the "What If".
((((HUGS))))) I am SO sorry that you are going through this. I know that there are no words that I can say to help you through this time, but please know that we are all here for you if you need to talk. Don't let your family tell you that you are crazy. You do whatever it takes for you to grieve. I think a box is a wonderful memorial. and I'm so glad to hear that your hubby is supportive
I myself have been through 3 losses, then gone on to have a healthy happy son (20 months old) and I am 16 weeks pg with #3! Most m/c are due to chromosomal abnormalities that you have NO control over, and will not repeat themselves. As far as how long to wait to TTC again, I would ask your Dr. I have heard Dr's say anything from wait until after one normal cycle to wait until 3 months after your first normal cycle. I have also seen women have successful pregnancies as early as the first cycle after a m/c. I really think that your body knows when it is ready.
Please keep us updated on how you are, and let us know if there is anything you need. (((HUGS)))
I myself have been through 3 losses, then gone on to have a healthy happy son (20 months old) and I am 16 weeks pg with #3! Most m/c are due to chromosomal abnormalities that you have NO control over, and will not repeat themselves. As far as how long to wait to TTC again, I would ask your Dr. I have heard Dr's say anything from wait until after one normal cycle to wait until 3 months after your first normal cycle. I have also seen women have successful pregnancies as early as the first cycle after a m/c. I really think that your body knows when it is ready.
Please keep us updated on how you are, and let us know if there is anything you need. (((HUGS)))
I went to my appt on Monday the Dr told me there was no longer a heartbeat that I had to have a D&C done. I had it yesterday morning. It has been one of the heardest things I have ever been threw. My family thinks I am nuts I put the baby clothes we had bought in a box along with family pics and flowers. I think its just my way of dealing. My husband on the other hand has been awesome. I am so thankful for him. He is asking me if we want to try agian , I am so scared to I dont want to go threw this agian. Do any of you know the time you should wait to start trying agian and whats the odds? Thank you so much for your support and answers
I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers! Im am glad to hear thay you saw the baby and a lil heartbeat! Congratz! Keep us posted!
Thank you all so much . The support on this site is so awesome ! I am almost 7 weeks now with HCH levels over 6000, went to the Er they said there was no baby in the sac , next day we went to my dr and she saw the baby and a tiny heartbeat! Only problem now is they saw bleeding from a small placenta tear. She said it may fix itself . I hope it does now I have that to worry about. I have had 3 c sections so my body is probley worn out !
It's way too early to see anything! Don't worry. As long as your numbers keep going up and don't drop, it means you're not having a miscarriage. Congratulations!!
Hi and congrats! I just wanted to say that normally you wont see anything on ultrasound until your levels have reached 1500 I believe....So I would not worry to much as you are still to early to see anything..Good Luck!
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