Am I out for the month?

[iffy702]

Hello, all!

DH and I have been TTC.  This is only our first cycle of really trying, but I felt very confident that we had actually done it successfully this month!  This is only my second cycle off BC (which I was only on for 3 months).  My last AF was 10/08/08.  I usually have 27-28 day cycles, but the first one sans pill was 31 days.  I am now 13 dpo, and was expecting AF to come yesterday or today.  I had ovulation pains the 20th and the 22nd, and we BD a week before they started, throughout, and a week after they ended.  I have no symptoms really, except very tired (bed around 9 am (even before time change), frequent need to nap, extreme thirst, and cramping yesterday.  Small amounts of cramps this morning, and a tiny amount of brown in CM (internal, around cervix).  So far still no AF. Fingers crossed, but would this be too late for implantation?  I used a First Response test on 12dpo, before the cramps started, and it came back negative.  Should I wait a few more days and test again?  Thanks!

[let129]

I would take another test, this is my DH and I's 3 month of really TTC since I've been off the pill, I was on the pill for almost 11 years so my periods seem to still be out of wack.  I am about now 3 weeks late but I've taken 2 HPT and both came back negative...

[Rosa20]

i would...you could have ovulated later!! So wait and test  in a couple days!! If its still negative....id say this month you prob didnt get pregnant....which isnt uncommon hun it takes most couples 6 months to a year of activley trying before they get pergnant..just dont try to hard and dont lose hope..thats what were all here on this forum for!! Lots of love and support!! Good luck

[LauraB78]

I am awful at  this stuff, but I am thinking I would wait a few more days and test again if AF doesn't show. Good luck!