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I'm tired of it...

I'm sick and tired of people say I'm to small to be 32w5d! I have gained the correct weight and my baby is perfectly healthy and weighting the correct weight. And then my hubby's family saying all this crap. I just want to yell and say **** you I'm not fat like you are!!
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I hate it with a passion everyday I hear the same thing "you so tiny to be 38weeks" like not really to me I'm huge from what I was before I've always had a flat tummy
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I hear that all the time. Some people just don't understand that every woman and every pregnancy is different. The worst thing I've been told (by several people, both strangers and close ones), is they question wether or not I will be able to have a normal birth because I'm so small now and I kinda was before. So annoying!
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7498971 tn?1391425105
Lol no I didnt get offended. I just feel HUGE! I've never had a belly before, and like someone said before everyone's body is different. I just think I look way farther along than I really am (: lol
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If your pregnant and ur baby is healthy but you didn't gain a lot weight ur lucky!!! Cuz I'm 20 weeks now I look pregnant enough now nd I have a feeling ima get bigger too sadly!!!
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Same here I completely understand, I'm 35 weeks with my second son and everyday I get isn't your belly too small? Is that normal? Is your baby okay? Do you eat well? And that makes me so angry! I'm 20 years old, always been really skinny and 5'8. Therefore I look smaller but still have a healthy perfect baby growing inside of me. I can't stand hearing that all the time!!!
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9704378 tn?1553726192
I was kind of tired of it, too. People couldn't believe that I was 9 months. On the other hand, it should make you feel good that you're so small & the baby's healthy. :)
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In the beginning my husband's family would talk about how small I was like if they didn't believe me, it was frustrating! Now they're like wow you definitely gained the weight, & that's annoying too. I have gained the right amount of weight, I'm 39 weeks carrying almost an 8lb baby (from what my doctor says) people are always going to talk it seems like. Just ignore them.
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:') everyone says I'm not that big but actually I've been measuring big for weeks and I'm expecting a big baby! Haha. Personally i feel as big as a house xD
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It's just how your body is. I didn't mean your fat. Your not fat. Everyone's body is different. I'm sorry. I didn't mean to upset anyone. I wish I had more belly. Lol.
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7498971 tn?1391425105
Well I envy those of you who barely look pregnant that far along. I'm only 20 weeks, and I'm showing like it isn't anyones business. Which I have gained the correct amount of weight also, guess my fat @$$ forgot how to distribute it evenly through out. Lol
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I'm so glad I'm not the only one. Yeah it was fine and cute at first but now it everyone and they say it more than once.
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Yes you are not alone. I'm 30 weeks and barley starting to show but have gained the correct weight. It's so annoying! Like you can say I'm small once not a big deal but when people go on about it so irritating!
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