spotting at 17 weeks

[momy2be1215]

My babys father was just given me oral sex and fingering me at the same time then he noticed blood not a whole lot but it was pinkish and enough to scare me what should do? Has this happened to anyone elce is it normal

[jennifer_grant]

Sex is fine. its rough sex that you have to stay away from. Some women have a thin cervix and sex can break it. And its all different to each girl and each pregnancy.

[momy2be1215]

Thanks ladys I have a pad on an nothing coming out so thanks

[kiwi6511]

Your only supposed to stop having sex if the doctor says there is a risk. Like I have placenta previa so it isn't recommended but otherwise it is safe and natural with a HEALTHY pregnancy.

Just put a pad on and if it fills the pad within an hour or you develop cramps with it then go to the er or call your doctor.

[mommy2be1990]

Sex is perfectly fine. I'm 32 weeks and still enjoy it. Just listen to your body.... Also if you think you're spotting then put on a pad just so you can keep an eye on it. If you are still bleeding call your on call OB. Good luck :)

[momy2be1215]

If thats the case then why do doctors say its ok to have sex I mean there professional trust me iv asked

[kate32324]

That's why when your pregnant you shouldstop  sexual activities. Its too risky. Allot of prople just don't get it though. But think about it your baby is just a couple inches above ur vagina and your cervix Keeps your baby in. Then think of what sex is doing?  Banging on ur cervix.

[momy2be1215]

Thats what he thinks I dont have any cramps are anything like that I feel fine just scared I havent spotted sence I was six weeks

[dollface7]

Maybe you ripped a little??