Ok, I found out a week ago via home pregnancy test that I am pregnant, (clear blue easy digital) and my boyfriend and i were SOOO excited. made an appointment at the free clinic for the confirmation by a nurse and to see how far along i was..(I am guessing im around 5 or 6 weeks LMP started dec 3rd or 4th) that was supposed to be thursday at 2 30
wednesday at work i noticed i was having slight cramping and spotting, not enough for a pad but just when i would pee there would be very light pink on the toilet paper.
thursday came.. had more cramps and started to bleed, like on a period. also started to pass blood clots, freaked out that i was having a miscarriage my boyfriend and i and my mom went to the ER right away.
we got there at 3pm (clinic said go to ER cuz they cant do anything at the clinic for it)
went to ER, got blood pressure done and stuff... finally got into a room and got blood taken, took a while since i have small veins. doctor told me briefly what they wanna do like to make sure its not ectopic and asked if that was clear and i said yea and he said "yea right.. clear as mudd" and i was like...umm? i didnt know if he was being an *** or trying to be funny.
after waiting for an hour or so i got a pelvic exam, remember i am still bleeding so it was nasty, the doctor at that point was rude he came into the room, im laying there in stirrups and a robe thing and a blanket over my legs, he comes up and said "any questions?" and i said "um,... no?" i figured since he knew this is my 1st pregnancy he would walk me through what he is gonna do or something. but he didnt, he was poking and prodding and telling the nurse i was resisting... when i wasnt!! i did have to pee! but i wasnt squeezing anything closed or anything lol i just wish he woulda been nicer and told me wut he was gonna do.. geeze.
after the pelvic exam, he said he didnt see what he wanted to see because i was resisting. and he has little hope of the pregnancy continuing, but he isnt sure..
waited for FOREVER and finally got an ultrasound or w/e. lady doing it seemed nice, took pictures i guess is what she was doing up there, and thought we were done, left that room and had to go right back in for some more pictures. after that i asked if there was a baby in there or not and she said "thats up the radiologist" so immediatly im like SERIOUSLY?!?!
after waiting about 3 hours finally heard from the doctor and he said im still pregnant but in that same sentance he said maybe, maybe not.. "in my opinion u are still pregnant, maybe.. maybe not" WTF? seriously! tell me something!!!! he diagnosed me with a threatened miscarriage which scares me, i want this baby more than anything!!!!! pray for me please!!
we finally got to leave the hosptial at 11 15, got there at 3!!! and all we found out is i have small veins and a threatened miscarriage... gotta go back sunday morning for another ultrasound and more blood work.. i guess to make sure the baby is ok.. if there is a baby...
my bleeding slowed down alot yesterday.. it was light, then only spotting, this morning its a littttttllllee bit heavier than spotting.
has anyone gone through something like this and had a healthy baby, please give me advice.. im scared.. but also prepaired for the worst... i just really want this baby, and hope i dont get the same jackass of a doctor on sunday