Brown Spot

[sweety121]

I have been trying to get pregnant with my boyfriend for 5 months now but it doesnt seem to be happening. i had chlamydia once for like maybe 1-2 weeks but i got rid of it, that was like november 2010, and its july 2011, could that affect my fertility? (because i no my boyfriend can have children because he has tried before with girls before me). He gets brown spots, similar to moles (but its not a mole) near his testicles and now i have 2 very small ones near my vagina. what is it and how could it get removed? we are both under 25

[godspromise432]

Im so glad I could help. And especially in reference to the herpes, I hate that this is what it was but glad that u were able to get to the dr and get the situation under control. But i do agree with Clysta you guys do need to really sit down and talk about having children and what effect these STD could have on you both long term and how it could affect children if born with these diseases.... I understand you want children but this is something to seriously consider!!!! And herpes is something that is life long but as U have started can be controled. I wish you both all the best, you can always email me if you should ever need to. :-)

[Clysta]

I'm not familiar with the drugs to treat STD's. I've never been given them, nor had a need for them. If you can find out what they are we might be able to tell you, however I doubt they would have caused it.

[sweety121]

4 pills that were 250g to prevent chlamydia that could come in the next 2 weeks. i dont remember wht they were called

[Clysta]

Without knowing what you were given, that can't be answered. Do you have any idea what they gave you?

[sweety121]

i got given these pills on wednesday and i started bleeding lightly this morning. could these pills cause the bleeding?

[Clysta]

Could be precaution. My doctor has given me things just as a "what if" sort of thing.

[sweety121]

We have had the STDs in the past. and he was married once before and has a baby from her, but she was unfaithful and gave him the herpes in the 1st place but she unfortunately left her baby and run off with another guy 2 years ago. and i had chlamydia once before i met him, but i got rid of it almost straight away.

it wasnt the morning after pill. the gyn gave something to prevent chlamydia but im gonna call on monday to find out exactly what it was. i dont no why she gave it when we both came out negative on chlamydia.

[Clysta]

You will never get rid of Herpes. It's a disease that will stay with you for the rest of your life. You can control the outbreaks, but you will always have it.

The morning after pill also doesn't "take away" a baby. It's not an abortion pill, and doesn't work if you're already pregnant. Without knowing WHAT it is you took, we can't say what it might have done.

Now----you both seriously need to consider if you should be having children together. You stated he's tried to impregnate girls before you (or DOES have other children), and that alone should have sent up warning signs. He's clearly not interested in a committed relationship. The other thing is that you have both had numerous STD's. This means a few things as well, the main ones being that you've either both gotten them in the past and just didn't know it, or one of you (or both) have been unfaithful.

[sweety121]

you were right i did have herpes and now gettin rid of them but my other half has NSU and that meant i COULD have chlamydia again.. but we  both got checked and we dont, but still the gyn gave me 4 pills to take incase i get chlamdya but the other gyn said its bad to take it if im already pregnant. i was 7 days late from my periods (but im NEVER late) since i took those for pills i got my periods after a few. could those pills work like the morning after pill and take away any baby that could have been made?

[sweety121]

thanks :)