Drama with my mom AGAIN today!!! VENT!!!

[mamaof4410]

For those of you that commented yesterday and know what's going on from my other post...my mom text me today right when I got off of work. The things she was texting were so mean. I sat in my truck and cried for almost an hour. She kept on and kept on. I just cried. I text her to just please leave me alone. She texts back "grow up you cry baby. What are you gonna do" I was like seriously you're telling me to grow up. I didn't text her anything after asking her to leave me alone. The worse part was that I was at my daughters school about to go in for a conference with her teacher.
I cleaned my face put a little makeup on and went in the school. Before I went in I had called my husband crying and told him what she was doing. He said when he gets home we will change my cell number and get Sprint to block her number. But the worse part...my daughter is very smart and she gets my phone and plays Angry Birds all the time. Well she knows how to read...she was reading all of the texts from my mom because I had accidently left the screen on. I would never have key her read those. They were very vulgar and mean. She asked me who it was and I took the phone from her and told her it was grandma Yevette, she looks at me with the sadest face and grabs my hand and says "mommy that's why me and my brothers don't like her because she makes you cry and I don't like it when you cry." That broke my heart and I promised myself right then I will never let her into my life again to hurt me the day she has. My babies are never going to see that again. After all of the mean texts and saying she hated me and I was dead to her she texts "I will always love you my little girl" after everything she said I'm just supposed to say love ya to mom. No and I will never allow her to get close to my kids and hurt them. She's don't this to me for the last time. I don't know how I have remained this calm but I know fighting with her is not worth anything. And at the end of the day the demons she goes to bed with every night hurt her heart more than I ever could with words. Thank you all so much.

[mamaof4410]

Exactly. It's like every couple months she does something like this. I'm just tired of it. She was sending me really mean texts and yes I'm not gonna lie it hurt my feelings to read what she was texting. She was never there for me. It was always drugs and partying. I was always with my grandma. When I was 12 and she cheated on my step dad I was done with it all. I moved out and went to my grandmas. She said in one of the text that I abandoned my family. I was 12! And till this day she takes no responsibility for her actions. It's so fustrating. She is so cold towards me and I don't know what I did so wrong for her to hate me and o told her that. She said I always make it about me. Well I'm sorry I can't understand a a junkie who blames every one else for her problems.

[bbygrl1269]

I'm sorry your having to deal with all this, no one should have to. My mother and I don't have a very good relationship either. I've gone quite a while without talking to her and its been even longer since I've seen her since I moved outta state. Stay strong and try not too stress too much. You have the support from your husband and those who do love you and care about you. You can pm me anytime if you need someone to talk to

[My2princesses]

I'm sorry you have to go threw that. My relationship with my mom can be the same way especially when she's drinking. She says the most hurtful things. But yet I always forgive her. I wish I was as strong as you and could tell my self I'm done with and she's hurt me for te last time.

[gatorgrl12]

I'm sorry you had to go threw all of this today. Still not recovered from your last encounter and that makes it even harder.
But you can do this you have a strong support system.
Its hard when they come down from whatever impaired their judgement. Because they know just what to say. But burning in your mind will always be the hurtful words. And its only over until her next episode.
You will get threw this. Without her.
And with all the love from everyone else who actually cares so much about you!

[kimjarrah]

Woww, your mum seems so immature :/
Glad youre finally putting your foot down, time to get rid of her she is wacked in the head.. Focus on YOUR family and ignore her sh*t