ECTOPIC =*(

[housemusicisbest]

so i went in for my 6 week ultrasound today and they discovered it was ectopic :((
they gave me a shot of chemo to dissolve the pregnancy :(
so now im at 3 mc and 1 ectoppic :(( i dont know how much more i can take.....

[renee82]

I am so sorry for your loss I to just went through an ectopic pregancy but we didnt catch it in time  and it ruptured my right tube and I had to go through a c-section surgury to have it removed. Thank god they caught your when they did and you didnt have to go throught what I did. Keep you head up SSBD

[Cassandrajane]

Based on what Trying43 said at the top. At least you know you can get preg. So here is some advice that has got me through life.

'Don't Cry Because It's Over, Smile Because It Happened'

Smile because you know you can get pregnant :)
Sorry for your loss... :(, I think you should see a specialist because of the amount of losses you have had?
x

[trying43]

They never really figured anything out with my m/cs.  The only thing they could come up with is low progesterone.  I took it with all of my successful pregnancies and it did the trick.  Maybe its just something simple they have missed.  Have your dr. go over everything again even retest some things already tested. What tests have you had, maybe I can think of one they havent.(I have had a ton of them) The reason I am saying that is it took a little over a year for me to get pg this time but I had to go through a lot to get here. Bloodwork, surgery, meds. Anyway, vent all you need to. Again so sorry for your loss.    

[pinkyblue]

I am so sorry for you....I had gone through this same situation last month. I was almost 6 weeks n started to bleed,when for an u/s but they couldn't see anything and it was a chemical pregnancy. Don't get depressed atleast you can pregnant like trying43 said.. Be positive.With time you will forget everything and you will have a healthy pregnancy soon. Takecare.

[housemusicisbest]

thx hun for your kind words,yes thats true atleast i know i can get pregnant but it also took me a while to do that... 7 years to be exact :(  ive been going to a fertility specialist for the last 2 years and ive had all the test run  for mc and there seems to be nothing worng :( which totally makes me more fustrated cuz then what were trying to do will be harder to acheive....i know the way im talking is no good but im really lost know and dont know what oto do or think :(

[trying43]

I am sorry for your loss.  I have also had 2 m/c so I understand what you are going through.  I know its hard right now but maybe you could try to focus on the positive.  At least you know you can get pregnant, so women cant do that sadly.(it took me a while to do that)  Since you have had all these losses maybe you should also see an RE and they can do more advanced care for you and hopefully get things going for you.  Again I am so sorry you are going through this.  Good luck to you.