I did ask and my midwife said if she checked me it wouldn't change anything so she said I didn't need it.
I tell them that I want to be checked. I'm surprised they won't if you ask
Well they said they won't check my cervix again until I go into l&d because they think it's pointless so I just want to go into labor already.
I've been using 4 vaginally every other night. Not sure if they've helped or not but last week I was dilated at 0 & this week at 1