heartbroken

[annak22]

Just need to vent abit i was 12weeks wud have been 13weeks 2moz and found out tuesday i was havin a miscarriage n went for a dnc on wednesday i feel so empty n just want my baby bk in me every1 keeps sayin its better it happened now rather than later but it hurts wen they say that cos it was still my baby inside me no matter how early i was am i being stupid im just so upset n hurt i waited ages to fall preg then this happens :'(

[queenkay3]

Its going to be ok i know its hard now but it will get better. This happens to a lot of women im sorry for ur loss

[mamaof4410]

Your welcome

[annak22]

Mamaof thank u means alot

[mamaof4410]

Your very welcome. Im here all the time and you can pm me if you want to talk

[annak22]

Thank u sooo much ladys there was a a lil problem during the oparation i feel so cramp so feel even more emotional glad iv got thos place to come n.tlk u ladys r so helpful thank u xx

[Aubree23]

Ur in my prayers hold your head up and remember God won't put anything on you that you can't bear and this is not it for you

[mamaof4410]

I didnt think it would ever get better. But my dr was very helpful and would call and check on me. My husband was there for me to talk to even though he had no idea how I was feeling. You will never know why this happened but most miscarriages happen because the baby has severe chromosome defects. Its Gods way of handling it. I know thats not an excuse but to me God needed my little beans more at that time than I did. If your emotionally ready when its time try again. Thats what we did and got pregnant right away. I will keep you in my thoughts.

[miley24]

aww im so sorry:(

[annak22]

Baby stopped growin at 9weeks n was no heartbeat :(

[annak22]

Thank u ladies im just hurtin so bad n some ppl just dnt seem to understand it i get things happen ect but u reali dnt realise how much it hurts till it happens to u i waited so long for my baby then.it got taken away from me i feel so empty thank u for ur support means alot sorry uv been threw this horrible time aswell

[miley24]

what were ur symptoms hun? that couldnt have waited abit to see if the baby grew?

[mamaof4410]

Everything happens for a reason. I know right now nothing we can say is going to make you feel better but I was there...twice. It hurts but I promise you it does get better. Its nothing you did wrong it happens. But I went on to have two healthy full term babies after both of my miscarriages and Im sure you will to when you are ready.

[Mommy2Bex3]

I'm sorry for your loss just know your baby is in a better place.

[Bri_1985]

No! You are not being stupid! I was roughly 4-6 weeks pregnant in May earlier this year when I had a miscarriage. It was not a planned pregnancy but it still took a toll emotionally on my husband and I. It doesnt matter how early you are when you have a miscarriage, I think we all are still affected.