pregnancy worries???

[magu80]

Me and my partner planning for a baby since december 2008, my period date was 29th december 08 but in jan i got my periods after 45 days cycle i.e. on 13th jan 09 and later in feb too i got my periods a week late i.e. on 22nd feb 09......and in march i got my period on 31st march 09............since we stopped using condoms i am having irregular periods...........last time i thought tat i am pregnant........but i got my period ........a week later.......kindly advice me as i am worried whether i will get pregnant and what are the chances of getting pregnant???? After my periods got over on 8th day when i had sex with my partner after i reached orgasm still i dint lubricated at all and my vaginal mouth was too contracted so i had painful intercourse with my partner ...........are there chances of me being pregnant still after i got my periods????? please i need an advice???

[Mary_N]

i had a 49(average) day cycle, and my periods were alwez late by 5-7 days every month.
the cycle length varied from 35, 36, 45, sometimes 50 and back to 45 and so on.

we have been trying for a baby since Jan 08 and i finally got pg now. i got a positive hpt on Apr 3rd 2009 and i have a doc's appointment on the 15th.

my advice to you is just relax and enjoy what you  are doing. and dont worry and dont even think too much about it. if you start thinkin abt it your mind will play games with you and make you think you are pg. the same thing happend to me last year, i thot i was pg when i was not, and i even had few symptoms.
that was disappointing but i slowly learned to stop worrying and enjoyed it and left it to God and in His divine appointed time He will make it happen.
and dont worry about the non lubrication, it happened to me as well in the last few months but here i am with a positive hpt.

so juz relax and enjoy, and keep trying.
dont get frustrated if its delayed, it could take 1 month, 3 months, 6 months or a year but it will happen.
will be praying for you.

i have the doc's appt on 15th and since i had such a varied cycle they cannot make out how far along i am, so they are goin to do an u/s...

evrything will fall in place, do your best n leave the rest to God.

[PJ466]

Try not to stress as it is not good for ttc. Just hang in there I will keep you in my prayers.
Good Luck