First time mommy

[MamaArielAllison]

Im super nervous. Im 9 weeks today(1.7.15) and im worried about miscarriage. My cousins had two. So when ever i do something early i.e tell people, buy stuff she always says dont do that your going to get your heart broken if you miscarry. What should i do? I need advice on how to handle her. And advice in general on how to be a mom. Im almost 19.

[nettaboo93]

I know how you feel. I was seven weeks and was accepting clothes. I end up having a miscarriage. I was devastated. They say its bad luck to accept any gifts before 12 weeks. What you need to do is relax. Dont stress at all.

[Marissalara]

From the moment you begun telling people you are pregnant everyone will have an opinion. All you can do is smile lol. I'm 19 and I've gotten quite a few rude opinions thrown my way. I just smile and say nothing and act like I didn't hear them. It makes people uncomfortable and they eventually learn to just shut up. If you've heard the heartbeat already that means your baby passed the stages in which a miscarriage is more likely to occur so you are about 4-5% likely to miscarry at this point. Just tell her that and try to get her excited about the pregnancy