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bf scared to have sex...lol

So my bf is scared to have sex he is saying that he heard in the radio that it isnt safe to have sex the last month of your pregnancy,? I laughed and said that's a myth, unless the doctor says no sex then it is perfectly fine..I dont mind though because im really not in the mood, but I think its funny how worried he is now, this is our 2nd baby (girl) we have a 22 month old boy already and with this pregnancy he has been so over protective, I mean he comes home from work and rubs my belly and cuddles with me but hes scared to have sex haha I find it funny usually its the other way around
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6265786 tn?1386113658
same with me! I cant keep my bf off me. he says I smell different and it turns him on. I dont know. he lovesss my pregnancy curves. I always joke at how fat im getting fat he gets verrrry anggry and insists im beautiful..and always follows it by lets have sex lol so I would lovvve a break lol
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That is funny !! Lol for me I wish it was that way but ever since I got pregnant my fiancé is always on me trying to have sex ! It annoys me sometimes lol I'm just not in the mood most of the time lol I wish it were the other way around for me but he's constantly running my belly and talking to his daughter it's so cute lol but he really can't go one day without having sex! Wish he would tho !! Lol
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My bf is just turned off / freaked out with my belly..he won't even touch it if it's bare. I put his hand on my belly and he always resists or takes it off right away..needless to say there's no sex going on over here :-( I'm 22wks...this is going to be a long frustrating few more months!
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Something in a guys sperm can make you go into early labor. As long as he doesn't "finish" inside of you then it shouldn't be a problem.
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My husband is the same!  We thought I was only 8 weeks and he was alright with sex.  Then we went to the first ultrasound appt and found out I was really 18 weeks.  It took 4 weeks before he would have sex with me even once.  Now I'm back to none again.
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Im in the same situation girl ... guys tend to beleive everything they hear ...
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I just had my daughter on the 10th & my bf & I had sex maybe a total of 5 times the whole 10 months.he was scare to hurt her & was over protective with me as far as getting up, lifting things, driving. He even would help me in & out of the shower so I wouldn't slip. He's probably just scared to hurt her.. But just remind him that he's holding out now & that he'll have to wait an extra couple weeks after you have her.
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I wish my bf was scared I don't wanna even receive kisses from him ugh I feel bad and try my best lol.  
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With my husband is total opposite he wants it everyday ... But in always not in the mood.. I feel bad .. I keep ignoring him , lol
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7442316 tn?1399778535
Sex is a natural labor inducer when u get really close to ur due date. So maybe thats what he heard and just misunderstood lol.
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When it really comes down to it pregnancy can be a turn off. The thought that there is a baby in there can hold some guys back. Even if they tell you its not lol. He will get over it.
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