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3062924 tn?1350414109

in laws

Ever since my daughter came I hate my in laws. I found out that they only want my daughter cuz she's a newborn and its just a phase. They had plenty of kids n grandkids. This is my first n my moms first. But they just wanna take over everything.  Its so freaking annoying.  Did anyone else experience this?? If so how did u deal with them? ?
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3062924 tn?1350414109
Thanks ladies
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Im a ftm too but that is so rude of them to think that since she'll only be a newborn for a short period that they have to be all in the mix,wouldnt they assume that this being your first you'd want to enjoy her too?..tell your hubs they need to back off an give you a little space an time to adjust..
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4774445 tn?1358996898
I have not done with in laws like that but my mother was like that when I had my daughter. I told her how I felt about her trying to play mommy with my daughter. I let her know she can give advice but not take over. So just talk to them and let them know how you feel about it and let know know they are welcome to give advice and help you but not take over. If they reall care they will understand.

And congrats anf good luck.
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