I've heard it's different for everyone but some people just like to sugar coat it lol thanks!
I'm on baby #3 and trust me I'm still nervous and afraid. So don't worry your not alone. But labor is painful , you just have practice being calm and putting your mind to something else. Mind over matter:) I'm 38+3 and getting induced Friday but I feel it could be any day before. So I'm panicking a little bit lol