Yes i would say to have it a vaginal delivery :) I had a emergency c section and now I HAVE to have another :/ I don't recommend you choose a c section not fun !! Like they said there's ways to make labor easier, I think you should try :D
if your baby isn't breech, I really do personally recommend vaginal. caesarian is always a back up if something goes wrong. I'm going vaginal with twins if baby a is in the correct position. just don't get scared because of something that happened to someone else. like I said before, you need to decide what's best for your family, but don't assume just because your mom needed them that you do, too. keep in mind that healing postpartum is longer with caesarian so if you have to go back to work shortly after birth it will be more difficult.
Its not genetic. But there are things you can do to make vaginal easier. Like don't labor on your back I have inf On this in my journals. Also you could use a birthing ball or gym ball to help stretch and relax in different positions.
Well my mother had a really hard time with both me and my brother. She said she really needed a c-section with my brother but she didn't. So if hard labor is genetic. It makes me think I should have a c-section. Idk its a hard choice.
imo, there are less risks with vaginal so why not try it? but it is every woman's decision about what she thinks is best for her family. I would go online and research both,.watch YouTube videos if you're up to it (but don't scare yourself) and then decide.