docs an midwifes

[secondtimemumtobe100]

so I have asked my docs an midwife if I can have a c section an get my tubes tied but they all keep sayin no to me

[KTowne]

That's probably why they don't want to do it, you're going to want a natural birth, honestly. C-sections are major surgeries, cutting 9 layers of skin and sewing them back up individually.. usually tubals are outpatient procedures, did you ask if they would do a tubal after if you had this baby naturally?

[secondtimemumtobe100]

I'm 24 yrs old yer I had my first as a natural but I have 3 big miscarriages. my first I had in 3hrs jus gas an air

[KTowne]

My doctor also told me if I'm married, my husband has to sign a consent.. wth?!

[sept_baby2013]

Are you under 24 ? In NC you have to be 24 or already have 3 kids before they will tie your tubes.. the will however do a partial tubescotomey.. but you can still get pregnant like a 9% chance so I guess it wouldnt be worth it

[KTowne]

Did you have your first child naturally? I've had two c-sections, LOVED them both, but would still have done a natural in a heartbeat. I think if you've already had a natural birth, you would really hate a c-section, it's longer recovery, more painful, etc. Getting your tubes tied isn't a super hard procedure, and really doesn't require a 9-10 inch incision.