They should really try their hardest to take it out, because it can cause infection and might harm the living fetus. I am not 100% you should seek medical adivce!
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I was pregnate, when I went to the doctors the first time she only seen one baby and based on my last period the fetus was small and she was concerned; asked me to come back in 1 week. I came back in 3 weeks. She still only seen one baby and the size of the fetus did not change; then did a vaginal ultra sound. While she was doing the vaginal ultra sound she discovered there was 2 sacks and 2 baby heart beats. When I turned 11 weeks based on pain I re-visited the doctors and had an ultra sound done and it was determined that one baby died at 8 weeks and now Im measuring at 12 weeks. Now I have a dead fetus in one sack and a live fetus in the other is this ok for the live fetus and when will the dead fetus remove itself?
I already micarried it naturally on Monday. After no avail of getting help. Tried to go to almost every hospital on the busline and get a d&c, but everyone told me it would pass naturally. It did, and I am still bleeding and have pain in my uterus, but I guess I'll be ok.
Well my dad's girlfriend carried hers for 10 weeks not knowing she had lost it. (She missed a two appointments due to vacation) It's generally recommended to get it out after a short time though because it can cause infection and infertility.