I wanna get things rolling

[2ndTimeMomIn7years]

Ok I'll be 39 weeks tomorrow and I've been asking my boyfriend to help jumpstart this labor with sex. His answer is no. I'm getting so annoyed and angry with him about this topic, but all he says is let the baby come naturally with no help from the outside world. We've only managed to have sex twice through out this whole pregnancy and I understand why. I had hemorrhaged when I was about 6 weeks. So it scared both of us. The doctor cleared us to have sex months ago. But to no avail he is not feeling it. Should I be considerate and stop nagging? Am I being selfish right now?

[2ndTimeMomIn7years]

Lmbo imma definitely try that. He's very stubborn hopefully I can break him.

[sharonda_heather2015]

I think you should talk to him again. Your not being selfish he's actually being selfish. Plus after you have the baby you can't have sex for 8 weeks.  I think he should give you what you want because it's not just about him and it will be helpful for you. I was having the same problem but I finally sat my husband down and explained to him that it makes me feel very ugly and unattractive when he doesn't give me sex when I want lol. It worked like a charm. He tore this thing up last night lol

[2ndTimeMomIn7years]

The thing is I just want his sperm. I know it may sound selfish but my body is in so much pain. Im still working, I dance, and I do pleasure myself time to time. But the sperm is what I need to soften this cervix up and get me contracting. Ive even offered him a cup and I inject it myself. He is just not into it. He shows me alot of affection but that's not what I need right now.

[Newmomma_2015]

Just an idea but you can always try masterbation if that's something you're comfortable with.. I've had to resort to that sometimes because sex hurts so bad lol

[KelzLanigan]

Some men just dont like the thought of having sex while the partner is pregnant! i think you should just leave him be! if you are feeling negleted then why not have cuddles and kisses?? Excercise can help jump labour!Just dont over do it