Im 16

[Cookie249]

How Can I Tell My Mother Im Pregnant?

[Cookiex15]

I just turned 15.. and ik how u feel.. i didnt tell my mom i was pregnant until i was 20 weeks.. i just sat down and said mom.. ik i promised u i wouldent and i might break your heart.. but i rather tell you.. mom im pregnant and i need you .. she did cry but said that she couldent judge me since im not the first or the last teenager to be a mom so early so im glad i told her im about to be 35 weeks and she couldent be a happier grandma to be to a babyboy <3 if you need a friend count on me hunn kay?

[mamaof4410]

I was 15 when I got pregnant with my son and yes it was disappointing but I knew it would be ok. I told my grandma like nothing. The one person that I was afraid of disappointing was my grandpa. He cried when I told him and begged me that if I was going to keep the my baby I had to promise him that I would graduate from high school. 2 1/2 years later I graduated early and my papa was so proud. Getting pregnant young is not the end of the world. Although it may feel like it at the time. Just be honest...she might be upset at first but I promise you she will forgive you because she loves you. I would tell her in person. Or write the letter and read it to her. I would feel like a coward if I didnt do it in person. But thats me. Best of luck to you!

[keeper_m]

I am 17 16 at the time i found out but i had to tell my mom bc it killed me keeping something from her so i just said my period didnt come & i took a test & it was positive . She was so mad but more disappointed . I'm 19 Weeks & still haven't told my dad i need help

[Cookiex15]

I just turned 15.. and ik how u feel.. i didnt tell my mom i was pregnant until i was 20 weeks.. i just sat down and said mom.. ik i promised u i wouldent and i might break your heart.. but i rather tell you.. mom im pregnant and i need you .. she did cry but said that she couldent judge me since im not the first or the last teenager to be a mom so early so im glad i told her im about to be 35 weeks and she couldent be a happier grandma to be to a babyboy <3 if you need a friend count on me hunn kay?

[Cookiex15]

I just turned 15.. and ik how u feel.. i didnt tell my mom i was pregnant until i was 20 weeks.. i just sat down and said mom.. ik i promised u i wouldent and i might break your heart.. but i rather tell you.. mom im pregnant and i need you .. she did cry but said that she couldent judge me since im not the first or the last teenager to be a mom so early so im glad i told her im about to be 35 weeks and she couldent be a happier grandma to be to a babyboy <3 if you need a friend count on me hunn kay?

[Cookiex15]

I just turned 15.. and ik how u feel.. i didnt tell my mom i was pregnant until i was 20 weeks.. i just sat down and said mom.. ik i promised u i wouldent and i might break your heart.. but i rather tell you.. mom im pregnant and i need you .. she did cry but said that she couldent judge me since im not the first or the last teenager to be a mom so early so im glad i told her im about to be 35 weeks and she couldent be a happier grandma to be to a babyboy <3 if you need a friend count on me hunn kay?

[nece062013]

I'm 19 and pregnant with my first baby. I'm the baby of the family and the only one without kids (same as my boyfriend who is 24). I found out I was pregnant at 5 weeks and I didn't wanna tell anyone yet other than my boyfriend and sister cuz I thought everyone would be pissed but my boyfriend told his mom just to **** her off cuz she hates me and I knew if I didn't tell my mom, his mom would. So I went to visit her and I just calmly said 'you're gonna be a grandma again' and she said 'oh s***, who's pregnant now?' And I told her it was me and expected the worst. She walked over to me and gave me a high five and started crying, saying 'my baby is having a baby!' Lol it was not the response I had expected. She calls like twice a week to ask how me and the baby are doing :)

[Cookiex15]

I just turned 15.. and ik how u feel.. i didnt tell my mom i was pregnant until i was 20 weeks.. i just sat down and said mom.. ik i promised u i wouldent and i might break your heart.. but i rather tell you.. mom im pregnant and i need you .. she did cry but said that she couldent judge me since im not the first or the last teenager to be a mom so early so im glad i told her im about to be 35 weeks and she couldent be a happier grandma to be to a babyboy <3 if you need a friend count on me hunn kay?

[Toriiee]

im 18 ganna be 19 before my daughters due nd i was scared to tell my family... i didnt tell my mom till i was 19 weeks! well my daughters dad told her... me nd  him were arguing nd she got on the phone,got his number off the house phone nd she started texting him nd she called me to her room nd was like so now hes sayin that yur sayin yur pregnant with his baby nd laughs... nd im like ummm wellll..... nd shes like seriously victoria? nd i was like yea nd she asked how far along i was nd i told her nd shes like now i no wat im buying with my taxes... nd she was over it.... my whole familys extremely excited now but theyre juss upset i didnt tell them wen i first found out nd honestly i kind of regret not tellin my mom nd family sooner.... yu should juss tell her... her reaction might be better than yu expect it to be.... my oldest sister was also 16 wen she got prego nd had my niece at 17... shes now juss turned 27 i believe nd has 2 kids.... my oldest niece is ganna be 10 nd my youngest niece is 5 ina half...

[ericsmomma]

im 20 im pregnant with my frist  i  spent all weekend  trying t tell her but she  was up noth with her cell off... when i was finally able to talk to her.. i said i need to tell you  soemthing... she said how far along r u.... i told  her 9 weeks and she said okay. thats how it went  for me.... but then again.. she is still mad at me.. b.c im the baby of the family....

your mother  might take it  hard... but she loves you and will always  be  happy to be a gramma it will jsut take time good luck dearie

[searra]

Let us no how it goes good luck!!

[Bubuh]

I was 16 wen i first got preggo my mom already knew nd she bought me a test nd camed positive she started crying askin god wat she was goin to do with a bby in a way she though she was goin to buy everything for the bby because the bby dad didnt work , that same day wen she came from work she rubbed my belly and was ok sadly it ended up in a misscarrige but 5 month later got preggo again nd i just told her to but me a test as she did nd wen i told her it was possitive she was sooo happy now i just had my bby 2weeks ago nd i can tell yu she would give the world for him and his her first grandbby so that helps :D btw im 17 nd my bby dad is same as the first one diiffrence is he works now :D .. You should tell her the best way yu feel comfortable with ;)

[Cookie249]

Thanks Yall I Think A Letter Is BEST

[searra]

I agree with ktowne

[KTowne]

Honestly, I think a letter is a great option. Try to sound confident and have a plan for your future in motion mentioned. You don't get a repeat of what you're going to say, so thinking it out, writing it and rereading it is a great option. I would definitely give it to her yourself in person, but I would NOT text.. That shows immaturity and NOT what you want her to think of you right now. I was 17 when I had my first, working and had a plan for college, let her know it was an accident, and you should've been more responsible, and that you plan on having a good future regardless. It's best to tell her as soon as possible, and if you honestly don't think you can say it in person, write her a letter.

[stefani2013]

Is there a reason you cant do it in person? And If you cant do it in person because she lives in another state or something then calling would be best. Not a letter and I really Dont think a text is a good option. But you do what you feel is best, Dont just choose a way.to tell her because you feel its easiest, its time to take some responsibility and the First step would be owning up to your actions! I bet its hard but nothing about teen pregnancy is easy hunny.  Good luck with telling your mom and congrats on the pregnancy!

[mandi41389]

I was 16really n told her while she eas at work so she had time to cool down.

[searra]

I would do a letter that way you can right all your feelings down, Its more personal.

[Cookie249]

Should I Write Her Al Letter Or Text? Which Is Best

[Jessiebaby21]

I was 14 with my first and before I could even say anything my mom found piece of the wrapper from the test. She was mad just upset but more scared of my dad. I didn't tell my dad till I was 4 months and he even threatened to push me down the stairs and im a ***** and beed to get an abortion but he regrets saying everything and I'm now pregnant with baby number 2 ad I'm 21 and he's very proud of me. Just remember she's your mother she will be mad but will always love you

[Jayeeee]

I'm 19 and I was very scared to tell my mother. But I went up to her, with my bf (who lives with us), he sat down and me and my mother were standing up. I said, Mom theres something I need to tell you. And shes like, what your pregnant? and starts laughing. Me and my bf glance at each other then back and her and go.. actually yes. And she stops laughing and says, Seriously? And we nod and do an awkward chuckle and she bursts into tears and goes online and starts shopping for baby things.... Lol.

It was honestly the opposite reaction of what we were expecting.. my mother isn't the nicest person in the world and we dont get along the best so we were expecting a tongue lashing at least! But nope lol. So i suggest doing it to get it over with cause you never know how it will go.

[Kelz72312]

I was 14 with my first one I am 17 now and just had a baby girl I am about to get married.. The best way to tell her is to sit her down and just talk with her abou it yeah she might be very upset at first but she will end up bing happy just let her in the delivery room when u have the baby trust me you would want your mother in there

[MrsKeener]

I was 15 the first time i got pregnant. i was living with my dad and stepmom. she knew before i did cause she said i always asked for tampons to be put on the grocery list and two extra weeks went by without me asking. i felt like i could tell her and i did. my dad hated me for years. my mom was ok. I'm 20 now and prego with my second and everything fine now. some just take longer than others to come around

[mckee513]

I was 17 with my first. It was hard. I sat down and just told her. Don't expect her to be happy right away. My mom told me to hit my knees and pray for a miscarriage. She still apologizes for that till this day. And it still hurts she sd it. It's not gonna be easy but you have to tell her. After a few weeks she got excited and started making lists of things we needed. I'm 30 now. Married. I have two boys and a littlegirl on the way. I own my house car paid off and am in school. She is very proud of me and I see getting pregnant so young as saving me cause a lot of my friends went down the wrong path if drugs and many have lost their lives. He gave me a reason to succeed.