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Hi, I'm 21 weeks pregnant and im a young soon to be mom(19yr). I'm still in college(not going to drop out) and my boyfriend graduates with a bachelor in accounting in a year. I've been trying to stay positive which was working but now that I've seen my baby a couple times and I feel him moving constantly I am beginning to get very afraid of my life changing. Don't get me wrong I already love him but I am so afraid of my life completely changing.
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I'm 19 also, the father of my child is not willing to be present currently so I am preparing to do things alone. I'm afraid of what people will say, I haven't let anyone know & I'm not showing I'm18 weeks. I used to do band but I had to quit, now everyone is asking why & I don't comment. I'm afraid but I just hope it works out for the better.
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I am 21,  married,  and my graduation is in June.  I am 19 weeks pregnant.  I will be continuing for my masters after I deliver my baby.  Keep high hopes and you will make it.  I to wanted to stop but if I stop I know I will not be able to get back up.  Plan everything and try to stick with your dreams.  Push yourself as much as you can.  I promise it will be worth it
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I'm 17 & my daughter is 2 months old. I'm still in school I'm trying to graduate early but it is pretty hard for me right now because I have no babysitter & I don't trust stangers. Yes your life will change a lot but it's worth it! Seeing your baby smile takes away all your worries. & now you have the biggest motivation to push you past your limit. Now your not doing things for yourself but for your child. Its the best experience in the world! ❤ (;
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I was 18 when my first was born. I was completely alone. I wasn't in school but I was petrified. It all seems really scary but when you hold him for the first time all of that goes away. Your life is going to change and it's going to be wonderful. Good luck.
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I'm 19 and in college and I graduate in a year with my accounting degree too! I'm 38 weeks tho! Honestly I was scared trying to figure everything out at that stage too but i promise it'll get better!
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