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Inlaws are starting to act crazy again
We haven't spoken with hubbys parents since they brought over abortion paperwork. They have been trying to put his brother against us, but it didn't work. They made up lies and said i did a lot of things that never happend. HIs brother has been sending us the e mails the parents have been sending and now more than ever i think they are crazy! Last email was they aren't giving up on D and his baby. I have something to do with making this baby. They have started to call again. Thank goodness for caller ID! They have not written anything to either of us, im thinking they dont want proof of how they are actting. I wish they would stop calling if i change my number there going to come over, Im at a loss on what to do? We are so happy to have this baby. D doesnt want to talk to them at all, good for me, but a part wants to hear what they have to say, i know im thinking there is going to be a sorry but im pretty sure we will never hear that.
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Just bash them over the head!! LOL, sounds like your only option!!
Does your Husband know about your dreams?? Cause if he doesnt, please tell him trust me! I had a termination Nov last year due to anorexia and stuff... and recentlyn having flash back type dreams. I mean like I am there again, I remember EVERYTHING, the texts and convos I was sending, times everything. I told my other half what had been wrong. It helped so much.
The best thing to do if they are seeking legal stuff against their own Son, well seek legal adivce too...
so if you're gonna seek legal advice, dont bash them over the head!
Is it just his mum or his dad now too?... Your Dh just needs to go. 'OI YOU BUGGER OFF!... you're just bringing my family down', and if they say 'we're your fam', he should say, 'nahh, family are there and are happy for eachother always!!! You just well.... havent been, So no not anymore you aint!.
And or change your numbers and send her a false forwarding address and say you moved :) LOL. My mum did that to a debt collector????? and we havent heard from them since LOL..
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Does your Husband know about your dreams?? Cause if he doesnt, please tell him trust me! I had a termination Nov last year due to anorexia and stuff... and recentlyn having flash back type dreams. I mean like I am there again, I remember EVERYTHING, the texts and convos I was sending, times everything. I told my other half what had been wrong. It helped so much.
The best thing to do if they are seeking legal stuff against their own Son, well seek legal adivce too...
so if you're gonna seek legal advice, dont bash them over the head!
Is it just his mum or his dad now too?... Your Dh just needs to go. 'OI YOU BUGGER OFF!... you're just bringing my family down', and if they say 'we're your fam', he should say, 'nahh, family are there and are happy for eachother always!!! You just well.... havent been, So no not anymore you aint!.
And or change your numbers and send her a false forwarding address and say you moved :) LOL. My mum did that to a debt collector????? and we havent heard from them since LOL..
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The only problem with that idea, is we aren't dealing with people that will listen. They LOVE to make threats and scream over you. Last time we tried discuss anything it ended up them freaking out because we gave them options. If this were sane inlaws i would say go for it but its like speaking wih a brick wall. I've been having awful dreams about them hurting me and the baby. They are at the point of making legal threats to there other son about not seeing there other grandchild just because he said he doesnt them to see her, because of how mean and cruel they are. Now they are making a big deal about it after not trying to see her for almost 2 years, just to spite him.
im so sorry this is happening to you! My mum kicked me out when i was 16 and shortly afterwards i got together with my now husband! By the time i was 17 and 4months old me and my husband had our own flat,were engaged and had just found out i was pregnant! I hadnt spoken to my mum for about 10 months by this point but i called her up to tell her that i was pregnant thinking she would be happy for me as it was planned and we were both working so could support our child only to be told i was a stupid imature girl who should never have got pregnant! she basically said that i shouldnt have the baby as i was too young! then she told me she didnt want anything to do with me or my child! this happened in june 2008! she now has a 17month old grandson and a grandaughter due in 9 days! everyone says what good parents we are and most people think im about 24 rather than 19! i know this isnt exactly the same as your situation but i just thought i would tell you that my own mother didnt want me to have my son and would have probably been happier if i had gotten rid of him! im telling you because in my opinion it will be your mother and father in laws loss not yours and your husbands! i wish you luck and dont let them get to you! sorry if you feel my story is irrelevant! :)
You are young but old enough to have a baby. That is just so wrong and rude they need to stay out of it. How dare they tell you to get an abortion!!! Well at least your husband sticks up for you :) Sorry this is happening to you specially at the happy and joyful time in your life. Congrats on the baby and i,m glad that you aren't letting them get to you. Take care
Yes he does he hasnt spoken to them for almost a month now for how they have been actting and has no reason to speak with them anytime soon. Yeah his dad said im young and to get an abortion and have a baby later. He just meant later with someone other than his son.
Omg that's crazy this is your body and YOUR baby not theirs they are nobody to be telling you what to do. seriously you are 29 you are grown who are they to tell you what to do they have no say so at all. Does your husband defend you and the baby?
Since they have found out they have done nothing but cause problems. I don't think they like me being with there son. oh well its not up to them. They have been shoving the whole idea of abortion in our faces no matter how many times we have said we want this baby. I have had enough with them we told them either jump on board of dont say anything at all they said we are nobody to be giving them options. What nut jobs!!
Wow that is horrible i,m so sorry that you are going through this. Why are they tripping out? Why don't they want you to have this baby? They have NO right or say so thats just wrong. Take care
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'Let me talk first, I will hear you out but you mention ONE thing bad about my Wife and my baby I am hanging up and will never talk to you again, We are happy to have this baby, and we WANT this baby. Whether you like it or not. it's my life not yours anymore, I am a old enough now to have my own family whether you're there or not is well beyond me now, becuse the way you have treated MY wife and now MY baby its a bit of a Joke and I really dont respect you as my parents anymore for the way you have treated my family... How would you like it if your mother in law came to you when you were pregnant with ABORTION PAPERS?? You'd go off your head, so dont do it to my wife'
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