Jealousy Or What

[MajorsMom]

OK So Since I Been Pregnant I Told My Best Friend Who Has Miscarried Maybe A Yr Or 2 Ago I Was With Child And I Got Not One Congrats,  But Have An Abortion From Her Soon As I Told Her She Was All Like I Dont think Its For You Abort It So Now I Decided To Keep It She Was Like Who The Hell Convinced Her And She Stopped Talking To Me But Is The Same One Who Cried For Weeks When Her Child Took His Laugh Breath In Her Arms When She Was Prego I Was So Happy But None In Return Do Yall Think Shes Secretly Jealous ?

[Nellyzz]

I lost my son. I would never dream of telling my friend to get an abortion.I get shes hurt I have been there but telling youe friend to get an abortion is wrong. I found it very hard to be around pregnant people. but I was there for my friend 100%. I definatly would say jelousy to some extent definatly.

[lovespea]

It's extremely hard I lost my daughter april 1 last year and right after she passed everyone around me was either pregnant or giving birth I felt put aside from everyone they were to "afraid" in telling me or inviting to thier baby events but then again you need alone time and being around babies at that time was hurtful.

[Mulaifa]

Don't take it too seriously. She's relieving her pain n wats happened. Give her some space too

[Ms_Puma]

Cleary she jealous it should never take no one a yr or 2 to grief over a miscarriage. Then what type of friend tells someone to get an abortion. That's jus my opinion she is jealous

[proudFTMTeTe]

Some ppl handle grief different I have a friend in which we were only 2 weeks apart but when she was about 24 weeks she started getting terrible news about her baby she had him at about 26 or 27 weeks n he passed in her arms I felt so bad I was always there for her wen she needed to vent etc I knew she wasn't completely over wat happen n when my baby shower came around she let me know ahead of time she couldn't manage baby shopping cuz it still hurt so bad I looked from her point of view n totally understood just be there when she is ready to come to you she's just still hurting

[alyssa1993]

I was pregnant with my daughter when my sister found our she was pregnant not to far along behind me but then she had a miscarriage my mother told me before hand so I knew to give my sister distance to let her heal a couple days later she called me and told me. She then went on to say that not being around me at the moment just was best for her she then came and see me and was better. Some people heal differently. Couple months later she ended up getting pregnant again. Had her baby girl. But her hardest time is now bc about a year after she had her daughter get son was born. My nephew passed away in July due to sids. Now my brother is expecting his first child a boy and my sister went to the baby shower it was really hard on her especially when it came time to give advice she left the room I followed her to make sure she was okay. Couple mins after talking she was better.  Honestly give your friend time. Loosing a baby is really hard. My relationship is more distant now with my sister but I know why it hurts me but I give her the space she needs.

[MajorsMom]

Thanks I Agree With You 100%

[GeekMom1213]

She's hurt. She's in pain. She's not handling it well but try not to take it too seriously or take it out on her that you're hurt by her reaction to your pregnancy. She may come around and she may not. Loss can do terrible things to people. It's not about you, though. It's about her and what she has lost and what she is missing that you get to have and so many other people get to have and she wants so desperately.