I voted they are the same. it is uncomfortable no matter what.
however, it is YOUR body. do whatever you want. I have a good friend who will ony go to an all female staff for her obgyn. Its whatever you are comfortable with.
It wouldn't bother me... I was in the army and have had male gyn, I never thought to ask for a female. To me I guess it would be no different then having a pap done by a man. But in the end your comfort level is all that matters.
I have had a male ObGyn before so having a male u/s tech would not have been a problem for me.
This doesn't bother me either. My dr it male so I wouldn't have thought twice about it. However I agree that your request for a female should be resected. One might think this would be something he would be used to as not every woman is comfortable with a man down there other than their SO.
Sorry you felt disrespected and now have to wait.
I didn't vote because I'm not sure! LOL It would be super odd to me. At my old doctors office...if you had a male doc giving a pelvic exam, there was always a nurse there in the room at the same time but I've only ever had female docs and midwives check me and have never had someone there.
So I guess in my opinion I think it would be ok to have a male, if there was someone else in the room..you know what I mean? It should strictly be quite professional and I could see how he may get a little offended but he shouldn't be too upset about it.
For me this isn't really an issue. I assume, unless there is reason to feel otherwise, that they are and will behave professionally. It just doesn't bother me. However, if you are uncomfortable with it, your request for a female tech should be respected. After all, you are the patient, and your comfort (unless a completely unreasonable request) should be a priority.