12 weeks and nervous

[seximommy2b]

So I'm officially 12 weeks. I'm not feeling pregnant at all. I haven't even expierenced a.y normal pregnancy symptoms. No weight gain. Naucea. Tiredness. Tender b
Breast. Or food craving. Is this normal.  I got yo say I'm very scared and nervous as I'm only 23 and a girst time mommy to be.
Also I noticed that my bf has been acting very strange he wants to touch my belly be by my side but when it. Omes to the prenatal vists he just seems out of place. Like he tather not.be in the room.
well my question is how do I get him to open up snd be more comfortable about us having a baby.
I would also like advice as to why I'm not expiriencing symptopms whrn I'm almost in my 2nd trimester.

[Makayla213]

About daddy, my daughters dad was the same way until he saw the ultrasound and actually knew we were having a little girl. Maybe that will help?

[Bella1296]

I was the same as you are i was so scared for my first ultrasound incase something was wrong because i hadnt felt pregnant at all! No symptoms hardly no sickness! But there on the screen was my healthy little baby moving around like crazy! :) hehe dont worry hun you will soon start to feel pregnant. Im 13 weeks today and only starting to feel pregnant because my uterus is pushing out so i have a little bump! And as for men they are weird sometimes about pregnancy.. Mine hasnt been very supportive :/ x

[hevamarie]

You are very lucky, but everyone's right I'm sure when you start doing things and your body changes more or even when you are able to feel baby and your bf is able to as well all will be ok. Good luck :) Have you had your first scan yet? I've got mine this Thursday x

[a_babby]

I barely had any symptoms until lately and I'm 13w. As far as the bf, give it time.  I've known I was pregnant for 9 weeks now and the babys dad Is still weird abouy it at times

[mtasker]

I never had any pregnancy symptoms and worried myself so much that at 12 weeks I broke down and decided to have an ultrasound at a private clinic and sure enough, baby was doing just fine! I am now 37 weeks! Some women just do not get the signs of pregnancy that everyone talks about. In the next two months you will start to see your belly change and feel the beginning of movement and that always helps ease the mind!

[Blicious19]

its normal if u dont have symptoms early some women are just very lucky. i had a friend that didnt experience not one symptom at all till birth of child. count ur bleesings u might be one of those lucky women.

[camochick2011]

And he was healthy when he was born.

[baby2014]

Men are weird regardless when it comes to pregnancy I guess they don't understand what it's like because they will never be pregnant.

People usually loose the symptoms around this time the 2nd trimester is the easiest. If you want a peace of mind make an appointment to see your obgyn. You could also purchase a sonoline b fetal heart Doppler from eBay for about 60  it's like the one the doctor uses to find the heartbeat.

Congratulations! BTW my husband didn't really get interested until after the ultrasound and heard the heartbeat.

[camochick2011]

I can't help with the bf part but I can say that its OK not to have symptoms. When I was pregnant with my first I had no symptoms at all.