Miscarriage

[Chanelly6]

Hello ladies.
I dont even know where to begin. This must be the MOST hardest thing for me during my pregnancy.
I am not scared about labor, i dont have sympathy for people that want to abort there babies. The ONE thing that i really fear is having a miscarriage. Knowing your pregnant, really excited, to find out... your baby no longer has a heartbeat. =(
That must be the HARDEST thing you'll even have to find out. My hearts really go out to the ladies that have experienced this. I dont know what it feels like, but id tell you, im sure its not easy...
Many people can say "it was for the best" "dont worry about it"... How can you not?! That was YOUR child. This post literally has me in tears.
Every woman is strong, in there own way. Cry if you have to.
Your not with your baby, but you'll always have them in your hearts. <3

[Cassandrajane]

I figured that out, But it looks like it has no arms LOL. Neither did I untill now haha....
But it has HUGE FEEET. Dont you think..

LOL.
I would be scared to get a heart monitor because sometime you cannt find it yourself LOL...


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[Chanelly6]

Cassandrajane - Yes! I commented on the picture already! Your babys hands are behind its head! Its CHILLING!!! =) I told my boyfriend, and he smiled! =P
I didnt know babies were capable of doing that!


Brittny - Im sorry to hear that =(
Im sure it was hard for you. People that say comments like that, have not experienced it, have not felt what it is to be pregnant. It really is alot of stress. I think about this constently...
Is my baby okay? Why didnt i feel sick today? This and that...  
I guess its normal for us to react that way though...
Yeah, ive heard about those fetal heart monitors, it seems like a good idea. Id like to get my hands on one of those!!!

[Brittny27]

Being one of the many woman who have had a misscariage I appreciate this post.

I had a healthy heart beat at 6 weeks and then went in at 12 weeks to find out the fetus was only 6 weeks 5 days and no longer had a heart beat. It was one of the hardest situations I've ever had to deal with. I got alot of those comments which I wish people would keep to themselves. I was lucky to find a great Drthis time around and because of my history I got weekly ultrasounds till 13weeks. I bought a fetal heart monitor also which helped with the stress and worry.    

[Cassandrajane]

Neither can I. sorry to change the subject my 3yr old brother just slept walked into the door!! HAHA!!!!!.
But no those people are stupid!!!! Because you're adult enough to make the life, you're adult enough to give birth and be parents!!
People still Judge me even though it was for Medical. my boyfs sister called me a Murderer. I dont like her. Condsidering she is pregnant already has a child and goes out every night and getting drunk. Annoys me!!!!!

LOL.
Well my baby has freaking MASSIVE feet. Look at the pic on my Profile haha...


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[Chanelly6]

Your comment toward my post also made me smile Charity =)
Sounds to me like where on the same boat. We just want our babys safe <3
And Cassandrajane, its not that i dont have sympathy for people that want to abort there babies, because sometimes, in some cases, they have to, like in your case. The medical reasons, or if someone got raped. But if you have a boyfriend, and you two are having un-protected sex, why would you abort the baby you guys created? You know?
People these days like to do things, but not pay for the consequences...
THOSE are the type of people that i dont have respect for, because it wasnt the babies fault.
Soo on another note, lets just hope we all have HEALTHY babies! I cant wait! =D

[Cassandrajane]

My dad has told me that quote sincce I was a baby and I used to collect Money Spiders on Kitchen roll and they ran away HAHA.
Someone who also has Schitzophrenia. (I cant spell)
I am too...
Basically I was punished for my termination with an MC but blessed cause I suffered with the pain and knew what it felt like AGAIN!
But I done it for Medical reasons not because I didnt want it.

I would die if it happened to me. And I feel for those it happens too... :(

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[Charity22]

I read this post and it made me smile, i know wierd right. Well just because it shows women like myself that there are other women out there who do actually care even though they've never been through it. Me myself have had 2 miscarriages and it was not fun at all, quite heartbreaking. And being pregnant now i think and worry about it every day. My goal is to reach 12wks where i know i will be in the clear, well in my mind anyhow. It will be the longest 6weeks ever for me. But i do know your not supposed to stress about it, because the stress can cause problems. Just want to thank you hun for the post :)

[Chanelly6]

Noooo! This hasnt happened to me, its just something i worry about ALOT while pregnant. Who wants to go to there check up, and hear there baby no longer is living =(
Thats horriable!
But sorry too hear about your m/c. Glad you were blessed with another one right away! =)
And LOL, who lies about having a baby?! Someone who needs attention...
Nice quote by the way... ;)

[Cassandrajane]

I know you dont agree with it, I had a termination FOR MEDICAL REASONS, I was 5 STONE!!!!!! And couldnt physically have thhe baby, But then I paid for it and had an MC with my next but I am now pregg again In the same week as my MC. I wanted that baby so much but Physically couldnt even my Doc said I wasnt able to.
And I was living in a Safe house. So yeah haha.


Has this happened to you then?? or are you still preg??
I feel so bad for the people who have MC or Blighed Ovum and even still births, Its something I worryabout everyday and suffering from Paranoia and Anxiety and I cant take Medication for it because I am pregnant makes it worse LOL.
But it is heartbreaking hearing about those stories. Breaks me in half.

An Old 'family' member (Was going out with my Boyfs sister) Lied about havin a kid. I threatend him with a Baseball bat. Told him he was sick if he shows his face near me again I will kill him. He hasnt been back since. :)..

You will always remember your baby.

'Don' Cry Because It's Over, Smile Because It Happened'

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