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Miscarriage

Hi. Has anyone had 2 miscarriages & went on to have a healthy baby? If so how did you cope with the worry the first trimester? Im a nervous wreck. Thanks in advance.
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I Had 2 Miscarriaqes In Kanuary And July Of 2014 And I Got Prreqnant In November 2015 Im Currently 12 Weeks Ill Be 13 On Wednesday I Been Nervous About This Preqnancy But I Just Dont Stress Or Think About What Happened Im Exited About This Baby So It Keeps My Mind Off Of It
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I had three miscarriages and they finally told me I haveva genetic disorder that causes calcium deposits in the hearts of my babies sobi don't get past the first trimester without progesterone with my son I had a shot once a week for three months with this baby I'm on suppositories but before getting the suppositories I lost one more baby after my son was born it doesn't get easier but there r thing that help I used a fetal doppler I bought on amazon.com and it made life much easier with my son :)
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I've had 11 pregnancies, 4 children expecting# 5, and 6 miscarriages, 4 since last dec. It was hard but b/c they were all early I just believed it was meant to be and God had my baby ready for me. I don't know what I would've done if it was a second or third trimester loss
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I had a miscarriage in april/may 2014 i then fell pregnant in the auguest 2014 i was a nervous wreck i couldnt sleep every time i went to the bathroom i checked for blood it was very scary but i made to the end and had a healthy baby boy...i am now currently 7weeks 4days pregnant and i am still a nervous wreck and i still do the same every time i go to the bathroom i check..they say timw is a healer but in the long run when you want to scream and shout with excitment you cant because of the dreaded thought of "what if it happens agian" like i am at the moment.... I eish all the luck in the world that you have a healthy baby at the end of it all god bless and many prayers
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I never had any symptoms with any of my pregnancy and just like you I was scared every pregnancy after my first miscarriage it was hard for me to get excited for the fear of going threw it again but I didn't loose hope, & thank you it's hard to go through that but don't let it get to you there is always hope,enjoy your pregnancy without fear and may God bless you
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Thank yu. Im only 5 weeks i kinds wish i could just jump to half way thru the pregnancy so i can relax & not worry so bad. Ive got a long ways to go.
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Sorry for the long post but To tell you the truth when I had a felling I was pregnant again with this one I thought I was going to have another miscarriage I didn't even bother to go to the doctor until I was 5months I was kinda waiting for the worst but hoping for the best
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Im so sorry for all yur losses. Yu are so strong idk how u do it. Congratulations on yur rainbow baby & i hope everything goes perfect with yur baby. Thank yu. How did yu feel in the first trimester of this pregnancy after all that? Im a nervous wreck its all i can seem to think about. I cant even seem to be to happy about this pregnancy cuz im living in constant fear of another miscarriage
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My situation is a bit different it might help though .I have been pregnant 6 times my daughter was my first pregnancy,my son was my second and was born with a birth defect and that was in 2010 after that year it took a year for me to get pregnant again I wasn't using protection I miscarried at 3 months I had contractions and all and I even had the feeling to push I didn't know what was going on(this happened in the bathroom) I delivered a fetus I could still see it indelivered,worst experience ever.After that year it took another year for me to get pregnant again (I still wasn't using any sort of birth control)I lost him too another year went by and I got pregnant again....also miscarried he had no heart beat by now I was convinced I couldn't have any more babies ,I wasn't taking care of myself the doctors didn't give me answers they said that sometimes that just happens.I'm now 39 weeks pregnant and everything seems to be going good with baby .I'm 23 years old and he will be my last I went threw so much I couldn't handle another but I'm so happy we will have our baby boy soon with us after years of trying. Don't worry things happen for a reason but if you are concerned don't hesitate to ask your doctor and have them check you or give you information.
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Your welcome :) head up girl
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Thank Yu
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Yea I had a miscarriage a few years back. When I got pregnant again with my daughter I was constantly pareniod! The worry would drive me crazy sometimes. But don't worry. You always have to remember every pregnancy is different..my daughter came out healthy as a horse. Just because you have had one or two miscarriages doesn't mean that you will have another. Just take care of yourself and try not to lift anything heavy
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