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offended!!!

so i was sooo stuck on the name jayden for my son who wil be born in  may im am caucasion and so is the father and 3 ppl at my work are like thats a "black" persons name!!! i was like omg that is soo rude to another race!! names do NOT go by race!! it doesnt matter if you are white or black or whatever u know.....i just thought it was so ignorant!
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4645839 tn?1358299731
I'm white and my boyfriend is black and we are considering jayden. who cares as long as you like it!!
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4645839 tn?1358299731
I'm white and my boyfriend is black and we are considering Jayden.. who cares as long as you like it!!
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My frens white her sons name is jayden. There u go
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I'm white n my husband is Puerto Rican ,I'm sure our baby will have a Spanish name even kno I'm sure she/he will come out a Lil bit white (all my kids are half Spanish) I don't care what anybody thinks bout my childs name its honestly not they're place to judge or say anything!!!!! I like the name jayden!!!!
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4658567 tn?1364142123
Yeah that was pretty rude! I have a white little cousin with that name!! And I also have a friend who has a 3 yr old girl named Jayda.. There's nothing wrong with that!
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1027304 tn?1333973406
I know what you are saying...when I had my little girl I named her Tailyn Jade.   I heard all sorts of comments of things from....black name to great career as a pole dancer.   People can be so rude and so dumb.   I love the name Jayden, in fact..I have a little boy named Kaden and I only didn't name him Jayden because my daughters middle name was Jade.   Oh and I am white too, so I don't get the whole race thing.    I work with a hispanic girl and her nephews names are Jayden and Joshua...so I guess they didn't get the memo either on what color they were supposed to be :).  Love the name...Stick with it!
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Girl name your babu whatever you want its your baby noy theirs. Im naming my son Peyton and keep hearing that's a girls name im like no it can be for either and i like the name its my baby not yours.if people dont like whay you name your child tough tell them too go have their own baby.
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3763041 tn?1354906251
The porn start comment is funny, I was told the same thing, my name is Alexandria. Everyone told me that naming my daughter Decorah would make people think she is black when she turns in applications or paperwork where they only see her name not her face. I don't understand why it matters what race they think she might be... Shouldn't prevent her from getting anywhere in life, especially now when children are no longer raised to be so hateful, so they aren't judging by color anymore. I think that its just the way older generations were raised and taught to think
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My names Ebony and i'm full a entirely white family.. Its rude when people expect me to be of a darker race family.. I just laugh and call them prats!
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My names Ebony and i'm full a entirely white family.. Its rude when people expect me to be of a darker race family.. I just laugh and call them prats!
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lol people are so retarded, I swear. through high school I was told that I'd become a porn star cuz only porn stars are named hollie. I always just ignored the ignorant people. you should do the same. I'd still be pissed off though.
my sisters son is Costa rican nd his name is Jaylen. kinda close lol
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When we was going thru names my oh liked tyler.. i wasnt sure on it 100% but my mum said "o you cant call him that its such a black name" i was like... Tyler... black... its a multi racial name.. ive never even met a blacm tyler lol.... but we chose ollie in the end... i really dont think race matters when you like a name. and jaydon is lovely... :)
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Lololol my moms name is Juanese and my name is Dominique....we come from a VERY southern white family....names mean nothing when it comes to race....plus my maiden name is Jones haha
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Screw those people. My sons name is Jaden and I'm white and my husband is Mexican. People r so dumb
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I find out gender tm but if its a boy we gonna name him makalih. I mentioned it to sumone n they said the same thing.. its a black name!! I was like that was o rude of u!! I'm white nd my bf I'd Hispanic. Ppl r Jus crazy nd stupid!!
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I know about 6 Jayden's & they are all white. Both boys & girls. I hate when someone says I need a white, black, mexican name. It's racist no matter who is saying it. My middle name is Lashea & my husband has my first & middle name down his forearms & he gets Is your wife black? a lot. So what if I was? I am clearly a very pale white person, with blonde hair & green eyes & we have a 9yo daughter together who has blonde hair & blue eyes. Some people are just rude & would be offended if you said to them Oh, you named your kid ...... clearly they must be black! It's the same thing.
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1840402 tn?1355432565
people said the same to me.. my son is called jayden and white.. people can have there opions but its what you like.. they need to remeber that! :) jayden is a lovely name stick with it x
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I agree that with certain names you can tell a persons race. Like ive never met a white british girl called shaniqua... Or a black man named fred.. But it should not matter in todays world.. if you can vision your son called jaydon for rest of your life then name him it.. Its yours and your ohs choice xx
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4114400 tn?1349923931
i love the name jayden. im white my sons dad is white and i named my son jaydon
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I think it also depends on where you live and what's popular.. I don't know about jayden being "almost exclusively" a white name. Where I'm from a lot of blacks or Mexicans have this name not really white people..
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3168718 tn?1363554044
So what what they think. They're just trying 2 give you a hard time...! and by the way I havea nephew and that's his name & we're mexican. I don't think it has nothing 2 do about what colour or race we are.
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13167 tn?1327194124
Well,  a lot of names DO go by race.  About half the time you can look at a name and know what race/ethnicity the person is,  about half the time it's a name that crosses racial/ethnic lines.  

There are certainly some names that are clearly white,  clearly black,  clearly Indian,  clearly asian,  etc.  

Interestingly,    I'd say Jayden is almost exclusively a white name,  and a very recent name - Jaydens are 5 years old and younger.
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I agree with the ladies above. People can be so rude and insensitive its annoying.. my youngest sons name is jaydon, but we spell it different. My hubby thot it looked more masculine lol I'm like who thinks like tht:) and what girls do you know with the name jayden lol
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1527510 tn?1392301344
Who cares what other people think about the name. If you like it, then that's all that matters. You usually find that when people say things like that, it's either because they're jealous and like the name themselves and so don't want anyone else to have it, or they just like to be miserable and be horrible to other people.

Ignore then, if you like the name then so be it.
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