I've had 3 kids, 2 natural labours and have never seen one, dont worry if you dont see one, labour will still happen!
I didn't start losing it until the morning of my active labor. Mind was a gush of pink bloody discharge, I guess it's what they call the bloody show.
Everyone is difference, some woman start loosing it weeks ahead.
What color/s?? Is it all going to come at once or little by little?
A slimy snotty looking thing. LOL