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My biggest fear....

So I am due in 9 more days, have literally bought EVERYTHING my daughter needs. There is nothin else I got to get but my biggest fear is what if I spent all this money and she isn't a girl! And she's a boy! They gave me two ultrasounds one at 7 weeks and another at 20 to find out the gender they said a girl and it looks like a girl and I dot get no more so it's scary for me cuz I bought all her stuff awhile ago and I think return policies are like 30 days after you buy and I would of had this stuff for longer than that I just really hope the doctor was right cuz if not idk what I'd do!!!
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Omg ladies I've been having the EXACT same fear!! And the problem is that we've already washed all her clothes so they're ready to go... if she comes out a boy, I wont be able to return anything!! I'm pretty confident she's a girl though because the staff seemed really confident. They saw the 3 dots too.
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Omgggg were in the same boat , I been having this fear for a couple weeks now &' its scary when thats the only thing you think about all day long . I LITERALLY brought everything for my daughter ,  so it would be kind of a bummer if they cut me open tuesday morning &' say congatulations its a boy " idk what I would do . I thought I was literally the only person w. This fear !
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9077628 tn?1411339700
I've been having the same fear for the last week! lol
I know I'm having a girl but it's still kinda funny.
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Yeah its kind of scary they told my mom she was having a baby gurl so at work they did her a baby shower n she got lots of clothing for a bbygurl pluz the one she bought and when she had the baby it was a baby boy lol ..... so sometime doctor coul miss on that .....
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Haha alright yea that's what I did. I googled and it made me feel a lot better :) thanks and don't be scared atleat you got to go to two different places and they both told you a girl I only got to check her gender one time.
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Yes lol every time i bring it up to my boyfriend he gets upset cause he thinks im gonna jinx it haha
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I'm getting scared now lol
I had my ultrasound at 21 weeks
One at the clinic and the other one at hospital and they both told me it was a girl :)
You could totally see her Lil sandwich lol
What I did to comfired I went to Google and
Search ultrasound of baby boy and ultrasound of baby girl lol
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Lol well atleast I'm not the only one who has this fear :P
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Same here i have 8 more weeks left and i have everything for my little guy, really hoping i actually have a little guy in there!
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No her legs weren't crossed or nothing they were spread wide open actually lol I just worry that even tho thy said a girl that they are wrong..
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Are your baby's legs crossed ??
Why can't they tell if it is a girl for sure ?,
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Nope there def wasn't anything sticking out. I looked on
Google to compare and that made me feel a little bit better cuz the boy pics at 20 weeks def looked like a boy and didn't look like how my pic looked so I guess that's somewhat a relief..
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I had mine at 20 weeks too and they said mine would be a girl. If they didn't see anything hanging between the babys legs then I think you're good. They pointed out three lines and said that means the baby is a girl.
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I really hope so. I think the doctor should've given me one more ultrasound just to make sure :/
  We will see lol, hopefully she is a girl and I won't have to worrie about all that returning stuff and reshopping and everything else.
How accurate are ultrasounds normally at 20weeks?
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10380106 tn?1410962725
Lol relax! This is unfortunately common but try not to think about it. Idk what else to say but that.... however, it is a common fear. But congrats! Your a skip away from meeting your angel. ☺
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As long as you have the receipt and explain the situation they will understand.
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