I'm 38 weeks, due in 8 days & at 36 weeks I was only 2cm dilated. I'm a ftm & I don't know how anything feels. I've had A LOT of stomach tightening. I've had contractions or pressure that hurt really bad & I can feel them as I sleep. They even make my back ache. I'm scared I won't know when I go into labor & have my baby on my kitchen floor lol How will I know when its the real deal?